im 15 yrs old and i keep thinkin about my mom. she keeps gettin sick and isnt taklin care of her heal and when i do tell her to go to the gym or go walkin she just yelles at me. i lost my dad when i was 5 and i dont want my mom to go. now a days iv been thinkin a lot of her goinng a way. i kno it will happen and i have a feeelin it is going to happen soon. i cant deal with it. i have to slap my self from gettin away from the thoughts. i try to get her to take care of her heal. what should i do? and what should i do to stop thinkin about it? when i do i some times get teary eyes. im soo harsh to her and soem times yell i feel soo guilty...

lil miss vixen

I think that your doing the right thing, after my grandfather passed, my grandma started to feel like , if the love of her life is gone, she'd rather be with him, then enjoy her time with her family, and my father and i felt guilty, for making her take care of herself, and i know, it hurts to see your loved one ill, but keep it up, just give her her space. gentle reminders are good, and if you set the example, she will follow eventually.
and i'm sorry about your father.
-mz. vixen

mikezapwnzor

Damn it ... make me get all sad ...

I guess really the only thing you can do is to talk with her about how you're worried and how you don't like her to be mean to you. Just try to work it out and keep both of you happy