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Old Mar 25, 2008, 11:09 AM
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Activity ideas for hospice patients

I've been volunteering at a hospice since January. Typically, the people we spend time with have less than 6 months to live. The first lady I went to visit really didn't have a use for me I guess. To be quite honest, she appeared in good shape and seemed pretty independant for 93. I honestly couldn't believe she was a hospice patient. At the time we agreed to make Valentines. I got all the stuff, then she told me no and that she didn't want to make them. She also said she didn't want me to read to her. She is a really sweet lady, but didn't even talk much. I kind of felt useless in that situation. So the coordinator re-assigned me to another lady, who was weeks from her death bed. This lady wanted me to read to her, sit with her, talk with her, be there 24/7. I truly felt like I was of use. She has since passed away, and now they are re-assigning me to the first lady again.

I have no clue what kinds of things I should do with her!! She seems uninterested. Does anyone have any ideas of what we could do?? I'm ok with conversation, but I suck at small talk. Any ice breaker ideas? She isn't really chatty. I might go today after work, and I'm very nervous.

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Old Mar 26, 2008, 07:32 AM   #11  
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LOL!!! Hey, she might be a rappin-grandma, you never know!!! Its worth finding out!

Hehehehehe. I can just picture the look on her face when I show up with my Wu Tang and vampire erotica.
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LOL! wow..... that gave me a giggle...... And it just might give her one too... and that would be worth it
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