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How old should someone be to go on a date. For instance should a 12 year old girl(grade 7) be going out to guys to the movies??? Should she even be talking to them on the phone the computer? Is 12 to young to date? Because i like this one guy and hah i bet you knew this was coming im 12 we were going to goto the movies but instead we went to mu cuzez and just hung out.(he's 13 grade 7). Please anserew me a.s.a.p!!

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hi i went out with someone when i was 12 and we did all sorts together. 12 is not to young its just about the right age.
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Sorry, but I disagree. At 12 its Ok to hang out in groups, go on group dates. But I would wait until 14 before you do one on one dating. Talking on the phone or online is fine.

What do your parents say?

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akms : hi im 11 and "supposedly mature" for my age 12s a good age if your not really imature and 11s a good age if your REALLY mature
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sorry but when you have a boyfriend you want your inderpendents.

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TheSavage agrees: If you can not spell the word -- you have not earned it -- Savage
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Sorry, but I disagree. At 12 its Ok to hang out in groups, go on group dates. But I would wait until 14 before you do one on one dating. Talking on the phone or online is fine.

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Scott is right, but as a father I would say one on one dating, you should be at least 25. But maybe i am not reasonable.

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Emland agrees: 25! How about 40?
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Perhaps studying vocabulary would serve a better use for time!

12 is 6th grade, correct? I didn't even admit I liked boys until well into Junior High School. My, how times have changed.

I agree with Scottgem. Group activities make more sense and are safer (especially for girls!) Don't rush - you have plenty of time.

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sorry but when you have a boyfriend you want your inderpendents.
First, at 12 or 13, even into 14, young people are usually more enamored with the idea of a boy/girl friend then the are with the actual person. You see the concept of a male-female relationship portrayed on TV and in movies and you want to emulate it. But at that young age, you just don't have the maturity. Don't try to grow up too fast!

Second, at 12 & 13, you don't have independence, period. You are totally dependent on your parents for food, shelter, clothing, transportation etc.
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How old should someone be to go on a date. For instance should a 12 year old girl be going out to guys to the movies??? Should she even be talking to them on the phone the computer? Is 12 to young to date? Because i like this one guy and hah i bet you knew this was coming im 12 we were going to goto the movies but instead we went to mu cuzez and just hung out.(he's 13). Please anserew me a.s.a.p!!
Not really, if you are interested in some one go get them.

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Second, at 12 & 13, you don't have independence, period. You are totally dependent on your parents for food, shelter, clothing, transportation etc.
That describes a couple of 30 something year old nesters I know, too!

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If it helps any it grade 7 hah..and for scott gems questions just like matt 3506 not until im 25 and i dont have a mom so...

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