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I was dating this guy for several months n broke if off b/c i have trust issues and he took me back and I promised I'd never break up with him again. Well he tells me just a few days ago he has cheated alot like on most of his girlfriends and even his fiance and now thats why they aren't together. So of get scared and break it off again and now I regret this and he said he refused to settle down with some who always has doubts. So any way that he will take me back?
He tells you all of that about his cheating ways, then holds it against you for having doubts about him? Oh my god just go and dont look back. Thats the stupidest thing I have ever heard. Do you want someone like that?
You had trust issues the first time, and as it turns out, so did a lot of other women, including his fiance. All of you have reason not to trust him.
That being said, you have to give the guy credit for telling you the truth. And what would his motive be, if not to come clean, in order for you to trust him now.
Maybe he has matured, and is ready for a one woman relationship. He trusted you enough to hear the truth, and I'm wondering what his motivation was. He could have kept it to himself, and you'd never have known.
Maybe it is better to move on because it will be too hard to get over what he has done, but maybe too, he deserves a chance to talk?
He tells you all of that about his cheating ways, then holds it against you for having doubts about him? Oh my god just go and dont look back. Thats the stupidest thing I have ever heard. Do you want someone like that?
So your instincts about him were right and he is manipulating you to feel like you should be the guilty one because you broke up with him. Count your blessings and be glad you are away from someone with such a messed up perspective on life.
Why put yourself through that rollar coaster again? The trust is broken. You'll be expecting him to do whatever her can to earn your trust. Why he put himself through that too?
There are better guys out there. Why settle for a cheater?
Sounds like you both personal issues that need to be worked out before you engage in relationship with anyone. No pointing fingers on this one... trust, loyalty, etc go a longgg way.. learn them.
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