Why Did She Do It?

jarvisO · #1 Apr 1, 2009, 01:26 PM

When I got on the computer after my girlfriend got off, I was about to get on face book but I see that she still log in, so I check a sent message and it her and her ex talking, here is the message.....

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When I showed her the message she said she had to know if she still have feel for him, and in my angry mind I thouht was bunch of BS cause it didn't seem like it and she is telling me she sorrry she just had to know, but im don't know, I think I should leave, but I don't know

MichiganGirl10 · Apr 1, 2009, 01:37 PM

Sweety, you need to leave. When she gets curious and has to know if she still has feelings for him, it means that she is loosing feelings for you. My ex also talked to his ex and I did NOT like it at all. I believe you can be friends, but the way that they talked (much like that) I didnt like it. It seems like you need to give her time. If she is that confused about what she should do, than you should go up to her and say... We need a break. Because if I cant just wait around for you to see if you still have feelings for him. I am a man who has needs to, and if that means you and I should break up, than so be it. . . There are so many other women out there who would just fall inlove with you. Why stay with somebody who is experimenting with 2 guys? I dont understand that. Besides, she said that she visited him, whos to say what they did? Try giving her some time... You deserve better

krzekali89 · Apr 1, 2009, 01:42 PM

you cant be mad at her for still having feelings for her ex, although this could be very upsetting to read if you loved someone it'd b hard for you to move on too.

i would leave though, if she is still in love with him, AND they're talking i'd get out before you get hurt.

um...but you should delete his number off this, because you never know who can get it.

jarvisO · Apr 1, 2009, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by MichiganGirl10

Sweety, you need to leave. When she gets curious and has to know if she still has feelings for him, it means that she is loosing feelings for you. My ex also talked to his ex and I did NOT like it at all. I believe you can be friends, but the way that they talked (much like that) I didnt like it. It seems like you need to give her time. If she is that confused about what she should do, than you should go up to her and say... We need a break. Because if I cant just wait around for you to see if you still have feelings for him. I am a man who has needs to, and if that means you and I should break up, than so be it. . . There are so many other women out there who would just fall inlove with you. Why stay with somebody who is experimenting with 2 guys? I dont understand that. Besides, she said that she visited him, whos to say what they did? Try giving her some time... You deserve better

Thx I appreciate the advice,I agree with everything you saying

slapshot_oi · Apr 1, 2009, 01:50 PM

u need 2 split cuz u 2 good for her aiight lol

Break up with her and sign her up for Introduction to Reading.

liz28 · Apr 1, 2009, 02:30 PM

Leave down because she still has an emotional attachment to her ex. And if she stills has feelings for her ex she is uncapable to commit to you.

What happens if she decides to wonder again about her feeling towards her ex and act on it? Or he tells her he wants her so you leaves you?

Just leave and it will save you alot of pain and drama down the line. Let her sort out her confusion without you.