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Hello everyone! well, to make a long story short! was dating this guy for about 3 months and i fell in love with him.. we had sexual relations.. so, i decided to let him know how i felt towards him and when i did he didn't contact me for about 3 weeks.. after 3 weeks passed he called me and apologized for not calling sooner and told me that he liked me a lot but that he didn't love me.. the thing that i'm confused about is that he still calls me and tries to see me and the last time i saw him he tried to kiss me and be lovable.. why? i thought he didn't love me... i feel hurt cuz he calls me once a week when he wants to see me... what should i do? should i stop answering his calls? HELP!
He may not love you just yet. He may like you a lot, but he hasn't fallen in love with you yet. He probably got scared when you told him that you loved him and that is why he didn't call for a few weeks. I would continue to see him, NOT sleep with him, and see where it goes from there. Just to be safe I would not sleep with him, I would just try to get to know him better and see how is real feelings are and if he stops talking to you because you won't sleep with him then you know that he is using you for sex and at least you tried and found out what he was really about. Don't just throw away someone you love because they haven't fallen in love with you throughout a three month period of time.
well, he texted me on Friday morning and told me that he might to go my house so we can see each other and he didn't go or text! what should i do now? is he just playing with me?? oh and he didn't call me or text over the weekend either!
He is horny and wants sex from you. Don't call him, don''t invite him over, if he comes over ask him to leave. All he wants is free sex from you. That is not love it is using you to get what he wants.
I'm disappointed taht all these answers only assume that he wants sex....
Isn't possible that you came on too strong too early? As a guy, one major rule is to not come on too strong. Do you think that you might've done so? And if you did come on too strong, that won't eliminate any feelings he has for you. But I do think you shouldn't try to invite him over or contact him as if you guys were in a relationship. Treat it as a friendship for now, and go from there. Assuming he only wants sex only leads to problems....
I'm disappointed taht all these answers only assume that he wants sex....
Isn't possible that you came on too strong too early? As a guy, one major rule is to not come on too strong. Do you think that you might've done so? And if you did come on too strong, that won't eliminate any feelings he has for you. But I do think you shouldn't try to invite him over or contact him as if you guys were in a relationship. Treat it as a friendship for now, and go from there. Assuming he only wants sex only leads to problems....
Sorry you gave me a reddie just because you disagree with my comments. That is not what they are for. Why didn't you give zoemarie a reddie too? Are you simply picking on me for nothing?
However if you go back and reread her original post you will see what led me to the conclusions I offered. He did not call for 3 weeks, then tries to come on to her. Now he calls once a week and wants to come over. Sounds like a horny guy to me.
Oh and you will notice that I did not give you a reddie, but simply stated the facts as I read them.
Well personally I simply disagreed with your quote so that's why I gave you the reddie. But my point is, wouldn't you feel awkward when someone tells you something you're not ready for? You can't expect him to suddenly be ok with it. That's like saying when two people break up they should just be able to bounce back right away. People need to be able to have time to recover. That's what I meant.
Well personally I simply disagreed with your quote so that's why I gave you the reddie. But my point is, wouldn't you feel awkward when someone tells you something you're not ready for? You can't expect him to suddenly be ok with it. That's like saying when two people break up they should just be able to bounce back right away. People need to be able to have time to recover. That's what I meant.
I see what you're saying, but people get on this site to find out what we think about their situations and if we tell people what they want to hear, we're not preparing them for what might really be happening. Realizing something before you're ready to accept it, isn't a bad thing. You will actually be healing sooner than you would if the people on this site just told you what you wanted to hear. I hope you understand what I'm trying to say. Although, I don't disagree with you I wanted to tell you why we say the things we say.
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