Okay. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year now and we have already started to stop with the passion and romance. I know that after a while of dating you begin to become more comfortable with one another, but isn't that a little soon for only being 19. He says that he has to much going on in his life right now to think mental about just grabbing my hand. I don't know what to do to make him want to show me that love again. I'm confronted him plenty of times about it but he just keeps saying that " I've told you, just a lot is going on in my life right now." I just don't know what to do.

Dennis777

Hello

Your right its normal for the lust to go away and Love to build but with Love you still can have Lust in a much better way. You need to get him out of his comfort zone and his mind back into wanting to make you happy.

Everyone has a lot going on in their life so the trick is to spend quality time where the outside world stops and the only thing that counts is the two of you.

Try not wearing anything under your dress on your next date. Don't tell him until your there. During the date make sure you remind him that your nude under your dress so he stays excited. He will be trying to find a reason to get home quick but don't let him. Make him want you more then he has in a long time and then give him 110%.

Don't do this each time you go out and that way he will want to go out more and will always be thinking is tonight the night she rocks my world.

Good Luck
Dennis