hey,

okay so there's this new guy i was with one night for bout a month ago and after we were together we didn't talk much cuz i wasn't sure if he wanted to have a relationship with me and i wasn't sure how i felt bout him. Now he's got a girlfriend but i've heard they may not hold long. then a few nights ago him and i were together again a whole night and then he mentioned how we could have been a couple after that night a month ago but neither of us gave that sign to each other and i had a feeling that i lost my chance and i told him that i also wanted a boyfriend but i'm just shy and now i am starting to like him. does this guy like me do you think from this?? should i talk to him about what will happen between him and i now? should i tell him that i like him? should i tell him that i want to be with him and i do want more ? please help me. thanks

450donn

Depending on your age, his age, there is nothing wrong with calling a person to see if they are interested in a relationship. Since he is currently dating another person I think it would be best to leave well enough alone until he is no longer dating. He apparently knows your thoughts and feelings, so it is up to him to make the decision now.

peggyhill

I agree with 450donn, wait until he isn't dating someone. He knows how you feel, so the ball is in his court. If things don't work out between him and his girlfriend, then, since he knows that you like him, he might want to start dating you. If you hear that he is single and you want to call him up, go for it.