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Old Jul 3, 2007, 09:01 AM
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what should i do

i love my boyfriend more than anything weve been dating a month and a half which is my almost longest relationship we spend almost all our time together but i feel like im getting sick of him but i dont want anything bad to happen what should i do

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Old Jul 3, 2007, 09:20 AM   #2  
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Since you are spending so much time together he may be feeling the same way. Might be a good time to talk about things. Your timing for doing this will be important. There is a chance he may feel threatened, so be prepared. His words and reaction will tell you a lot.
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Old Jul 3, 2007, 10:19 AM   #3  
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Hello.

You need to relax and enjoy being together. Stop thinking about the what ifs and enjoy the now. Make the time your together special but don't spend 24/7 together. You both need your own time and time with your own friends.

Agree that when you go out without each other there will be nothing more then flirting a little with others. You have to have fun and flirt a little and this also builds trust.

Good Luck
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After a month and half and you are already sick of him...what does that tell you about the future with him? Honestly. Maybe you two spent so much time together that were like a candle burning at both ends. I don't know. Perhaps you two really did not have that much in common, to make a relationship last.

So step back and look at this seriously. You don't say your age, but likely you are still fairly young and too young to be looking at long term relationships. You just are not ready. So you do need to talk to him and be honest. Don't cover up your feelings, don't lie and say everything is allright when it is not. The worst that can happen is that you two go your own ways, which is what should happen here anyways. But please give this relationship some respect and talk to your boyfriend now, before you start hating him and/or yourself.
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i agree with "shygrneyzs"...if your board now, what happens later...talk things out...maybe a couple days away from eachother is all you need...but then again...maybe not...good luck.
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