what does it mean

animalloverme · #1 Jun 28, 2009, 01:48 AM

hello i am in 3 or 4 month relationship with a guy and have this problem. The guy has no idea how to handle me i mean when i get angry he gets angry when i try to make him jealous he tries it too with a girl i dont like and he knows that i dont like her.When i get moody he gets moody . I mean the guy wants to compete with me in all the things even like with the stupid things like it was me who saw our friend first . What does it mean and how to handle it .

danielnoahsmommy · Jun 28, 2009, 02:55 AM

not to sound crude. stop playing games! this relationship wont make it if you play these games!

redhed35 · Jun 28, 2009, 03:00 AM

what ages are you both?

N0help4u · Jun 28, 2009, 07:22 AM

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Originally Posted by animalloverme

hello i am in 3 or 4 month relationship with a guy and have this problem. The guy has no idea how to handle me i mean

when i get angry he gets angry

It is possible that you are setting the tone and he is merely reacting

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Originally Posted by animalloverme

when i try to make him jealous he tries it too with a girl i dont like and he knows that i dont like her.

So what benefit and purpose does it serve to try and get him jealous, especially when you KNOW that will be his next step. Why put yourself in that position?

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Originally Posted by animalloverme

When i get moody he gets moody .

I am not a moody person but I know when people get moody my mood does tend to reflect back on their mood, It is only natural that people that are together are going to end up in basically the same mood.

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Originally Posted by animalloverme

I mean the guy wants to compete with me in all the things even like with the stupid things like it was me who saw our friend first .

I don't see it as competing he could simply be trying to get you to see your behavior by putting it back at you.

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Originally Posted by animalloverme

What does it mean and how to handle it .

It means fix your behavior and STOP PLAYING GAMES.

talaniman · Jun 28, 2009, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by animalloverme

What does it mean and how to handle it .

It means fix your behavior and STOP PLAYING GAMES.

Had to spread the rep, but that was a great answer, so I will go with it too.

firefly07 · Jun 28, 2009, 12:48 PM

wow.. that must be annoying.... lol.
but i think your taking this the wrong way.
as people said above, when your moody or angry, it tends to make an atmosphere.

with the whole jelous thing, if a guy gets jelous, they feel insecure and worried that the person they love is going to leave them, so they do it back to make you feel the same way they do.

again, as said above, you need to stop playing games with him and maybe sit down and talk to him rather then refering to the net for answers.... as we cant actually see whats going on.

letmetellu · Jun 28, 2009, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by animalloverme

hello i am in 3 or 4 month relationship with a guy and have this problem. The guy has no idea how to handle me i mean when i get angry he gets angry when i try to make him jealous he tries it too with a girl i dont like and he knows that i dont like her.When i get moody he gets moody . I mean the guy wants to compete with me in all the things even like with the stupid things like it was me who saw our friend first . What does it mean and how to handle it .

First I am surprised this relationship has lasted 3 or 4 months.

Why is it that you feel that you are the only one that has the right to have these feelings.

And if I were you I would quit trying to be the one that is always right.

talaniman · Jun 28, 2009, 02:13 PM

I am unsure of what you expect from him.



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