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COMPLETELY depends on the guy... you just cant generalize.
some want sex. some want a buddy. some want a connection. some dont know what they want. some are needy and want to be a butler. some are distant and want to drive the show.
the most important thing is for you to know what you want.
The best girl is one who doesn't "NEED" me, who has a life and goals and dreams and fun and laughter and self-reliance...and then lets me share that life with her.
That describes my wife. She wouldn't even go out with me the first 5-6 times I tried, she was just too busy and i was too weird. But I kept at it, and after 23 years of marriage the only thing she really needs from me is what I give her...unconditional love. The rest takes care of itself.
Someone who knows who they are and what they want. Basically someone who's confident. The second most important thing is that they know how to have fun, goof around, be silly or whatever. Third for me is that they hate drama. Someone with all of those is a big turn on.
A girl that is herself. Not just when she is with her friends, but all of the time.
I believe that a girl that is not so good looking can be absolutely beautiful if she has a really good personality. It is very rare in our culture that people can look past what is on the outside, but most of the time, when you meet that special person, you know right away.
Also, the most important part of relationships is that you have to know that what is going on in your life is great. When that is the case, that special person, no matter what they look like, will have you feeling that your life is fantastic.