Are we meant to be

sam236 · Feb 2, 2008, 10:03 AM

My boyfriend is very self centered, he is always talking about himself and he doesnt take others feelings into consideration before he says things, sometimes saying hurtful things. I have been dating him for 10 months now, he is 21 i am 27. So theres an age difference too. He is very critical of me too. Always telling me he doesnt agree with the way i parent, that he could do it better and and telling me in a nice way that i am lazy and stuff, which infact i have depression, which lowers my motivation. I think we are not meant for eachother but how do i know for sure

victoriarose · Feb 2, 2008, 05:00 PM

well I think if someone loves you they should treat you with respect not try to discourage you..You don't need that. I think the longer you stay with him the way he talks you down will only get worse. My advice would be to break it off I went through this myself before.. There are plenty of fish in the sea that can treat you the way you deserve to be treated..

I hope everything works out for you. Keep your head up

talaniman · Feb 3, 2008, 03:53 AM

I suggest you communicate your feelings to him, and let him know his critism of you will not be tolerated, and stick to your guns.



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