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Old May 11, 2008, 08:34 PM
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I want to know what should i do?is he ignoring me?

I went to date with a guy, every thige was perfect after dinner he said time goes fast and the time was short! then when he was dropping me off he said keep in touch okay?
then I text him it was a lovelly night thanks. then he respond any time.
but after 2 days i text him, he hasn't respond after a day i called him and left him a massage that i just wanted to know how r you doing please call me...
but he hasn't respond. please advise me is he ignoring me? so why he said keep in touch.
please let me know what should i do?

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Old May 11, 2008, 08:38 PM   #2  
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It was only one date....perhaps he was being polite. It sounds that way. usually if a guy is genuinely interested, he will be the one to keep in touch. A guy who is interested will not leave you wondering if he will call....he would have called already. Forget about him....there are plenty of others out there. good luck!
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Old May 13, 2008, 07:17 AM   #3  
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i think you've done enough...you've txt him and called him the rest is up to him. i feel that he is ignoring you and you should continue to go on dates with other guys (he probably was on a date when you called and left a message). he probably wasn't interested in you so he was being nice when he said keep in touch.
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Make sure you have more than one guy you're having first dates with. Focusing solely and possibly obsessively on one guy might be the reason you never get anywhere with him. Maybe.

Anyway, what I want to know is how you texted him a massage. I want one of those.
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Old May 16, 2008, 02:05 AM   #5  
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Make sure you have more than one guy you're having first dates with. Focusing solely and possibly obsessively on one guy might be the reason you never get anywhere with him. Maybe.

Anyway, what I want to know is how you texted him a massage. I want one of those.


The last one I texted was: Hi, I just wanted to know how are you doing?
after 2 days he responded to me: I was out of town for the weekends and just got your massages, I'll call you later Take care.
He hasn't call me yet
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Old May 16, 2008, 04:54 PM   #6  
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You need more patience! You've got all the signs to me that you have already fallen for this guy! Whether he likes you more or less after that first date, it is his decision!
As JB has said, make sure there is more than one guy that you have a first date. It takes time to find the one and don't hurt yourself by falling so fast okay?
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Old Jun 16, 2008, 09:42 AM   #7  
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Originally Posted by pestoonak
I went to date with a guy, every thige was perfect after dinner he said time goes fast and the time was short! then when he was dropping me off he said keep in touch okay?
then I text him it was a lovelly night thanks. then he respond any time.
but after 2 days i text him, he hasn't respond after a day i called him and left him a massage that i just wanted to know how r you doing please call me...
but he hasn't respond. please advise me is he ignoring me? so why he said keep in touch.
please let me know what should i do?
he is ignoring you because you were the one to call and text him. he said keep in touch to nicely let you know that he had a good time but probably doesnt see it going further. you should ALWAYS let the man chase you and contact you. You screwed it up yourself by contacting him upfront. Learn from this date and whatever you do let it be in the mans hands to call you no matter how much you want to give it.
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Old Jun 16, 2008, 12:45 PM   #8  
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dont let curiosoty about his motive turn you into a stalker, i dont mean that in a cruel way honestly, i speak from experience, my need to know and understand has made me come across as crazy a few times and it makes life a bit uncomfortable for awhile, just forget him
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Old Jun 16, 2008, 12:53 PM   #9  
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Originally Posted by pestoonak
I went to date with a guy, every thige was perfect after dinner he said time goes fast and the time was short! then when he was dropping me off he said keep in touch okay?
then I text him it was a lovelly night thanks. then he respond any time.
but after 2 days i text him, he hasn't respond after a day i called him and left him a massage that i just wanted to know how r you doing please call me...
but he hasn't respond. please advise me is he ignoring me? so why he said keep in touch.
please let me know what should i do?
In all honesty he probably doesn't like u like that since u texted him and then called and left a verbal message i wouldn't do anything else if he doesn't return your call oh well just take it for what it was a free night out on the town .. u will meet someone else
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