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Get out and have fun and find out about yourself and then you'll know when the perfect person shows up. You don't think he's going to ring your door bell do you? In my view that is a little unrealistic.
Mathematicallly is stands to reason that the more you mix it up with people, the more likely you are to find a match -- so whatever method you want to use, dating, hanging out with friends, church, hobbies, classes, etc -- is all good! The point is to use this mixing-it-up time to practice and hone your social skills because, trust me, when you find your match, you will need them!
I think it's better to date for a while before deciding to settle down. I think it's a good idea to get to know people. It can take some time before you realize this might be someone you want to share your life with. I agree that no one is perfect, so I think I would give up on finding the "perfect" person. Everyone will bother you in some way or another.
Jamez agrees: I completely understand what you mean, but sometimes I'm just really sick of relationships and just want to focus on other things in my life such as work. But then I'm also afraid that I just give up, I will grow old alone.....
I was like you before i met my hubby. I meet him when i was 19, fairly young but i was out and about from the age of 16.
Focus on your life and future more then anything, but when you go out, go out with no intention of searching for your girl, go out with mates and enjoy it, go with the flow.
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