Is there any chance for me please. Help

talaniman · Dec 20, 2011, 03:14 PM

Please, many of us have been thru a lot worse, and thrived and survived, and since you asked we told you how it was done.

Don't blame anyone but yourself because you are stuck on this fellow, and are confused. You think by waiting he will be back? You think accepting his behavior will bring him back? Since you do, then just keep doing what you are doing. But don't blame others for not agreeing with you, since many have been in this same situation, and do understand that waiting for some one to come back, and receiving crumbs and false hope was a path to continued confusion, and misery. They chose to end that situation because they believed they could do better, and they DID!!

But if you have what you want, sweet words but no action.............................GO FOR IT!!

UncommonFlower · Apr 20, 2012, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by UncommonFlower

Hi all
I was in love , he confessed me the same.. I hurt him and left the country. After 4 years I called him and hurt him even more. ( I know that what I did wasn't nice). Tried to call again but he doesn't communicate- either refuses to pick up the phone , rejects the call or picks up and listens and then puts phone down or if I start to speak he hungs on me.Now realising after even more years that I still into him I decided to appologise to him and get to him.
He isn't married, and dates casually (i did my survey, lives in poorer country than me ( am from same country but left for Uk), he is 11 years older than me.
I look good and I want him back. Is there any chance for me?

To everyone who answered my question- I met him ( I flew back to my home country, called him and we met) and we talked about everything basically..( i was nicely surprised when he said the reason for not picking the phone was his 'anxiety I might never return for a real talk but instead leave him and forget about all that happened- if I knew the reason I would make with him up 9 years ago)).
Everything would be amazingly great and as in the fairy tale ending -'...and they lived happily ever after', but worst part is- MY FEELINGS FOR HIM VANISHED AS SOON AS I MET HIM AGAIN. Just flew back after spending time with him and I do not even think about him anymore, even cannot force myself to be friends with him- I do not know why, but please DO NOT BOTHER ANSWERING BECAUSE I REALLY DON'T WANT TO KNOW AND ANALYSE THIS,- IT WOULD BE PAINFUL TO ME. so disappointing!!!!!

Is there any chance for me please. Help

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