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    May 6, 2008, 08:25 PM
    Taking a break
    I've been dating this girl for about a little over a month. Its been great. I can tell that she can be the one already. I'm falling in love with her and she has told me multiple times that the feeling is mutual. Yesterday she tells me that she wants to take a break. She said that needs some time to focus on her and just her. WHAT DO I DO??
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    May 6, 2008, 08:41 PM
    Well you either give her space or you become a stalker. She may feel it is going to far too fast.
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    May 7, 2008, 01:05 AM
    Someone you care for makes a request, you honor it.
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    May 7, 2008, 07:50 PM
    Taking a break might be a good thing for you as well. I tell you if you now start being a stalker, you will get hurt more and lose her.
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    May 7, 2008, 07:59 PM
    I told my husband the same thing when we were together for about a month and then six months later we got married. So give her the break that she needs just don't give up on her
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    May 7, 2008, 08:02 PM
    People need to realize that taking a break is not the end of day!
    The worst thing is that she is not coming back with you, then her loss!
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    Jun 21, 2009, 09:39 PM

    I know these posts are over a month old but I'm in the same situation. She asked for a break after only two months and now I'm waiting. I think she just got scared as it went very quickly straight from the off. I'm hoping she calls soon, it's been a week. How long do girls usually take to sort out their heads on breaks anyway??
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    Jun 22, 2009, 12:30 AM

    Actually, these posts are over thirteen months old.
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