here's the story ive been with him for a yr n half i do everything i can to be the best girlfriend that i can be i cook, clean, provide what ever he needs, and always there when hes upset....now he wants to push me out the way cause i didn't want to go over his house cause i just had a newborn with him i'm not in a good mood to get back to fighting with him...am i doing something wrong cause i wanted alone time? He's throwing me away like trash as if i'm garbage he wanted me to go home but i told him i'm not ready i'm in a bad mood..and i don't want to fight..i think hes taking advantage of me? but is he? is he being selfish and doesn't want me to have time to myself hes always acusing me of cheating when i'm home everyday i tell him i love him but i don't know what's wrong its hard being a NEW mom n crying with your baby when she does he doesn't seem to understand that i'm feeling bad and want a weekend to myself i guess it was a now or never give or take? i don't know someone help me. He's a very generous giving guy when hes not pissed off, but he wants to end everything once my life fell down and his got back up what's going on here?

N0help4u

Sounds to me like he is insecure and he wants everything 'my way or the highway' and isn't concerned about your needs or what you want in the relationship or in life. It actually sounds like he has an attitude of if you don't do things the way I want I will do something out of spite or punishment. If he is this way now you will never have a life where you can make decisions or find things that you enjoy like hobbies and so forth.