So My Ex Called.

thekid55 · #1 Jun 28, 2008, 05:02 PM

Anyone that has followed my threads knows that my girl at school and I decide to take a break. After about a week of not talking, she called me around 5 yesterday. Since I have not been moping around or doing nothing with my life, I did not see her call. I was out running and trying to better myself. I ended up calling her back around 7. We had a good conversation. For about 10 minutes. She was asking me about my life since we haven't talked in a little while. I asked about her new job and things of that nature. No talk at all about the relationship. No neediness on my half. Plus I haven't been needy at all since we have been apart. She told me that she was making dinner and jello-shots with one of her girlfriends.

She is really busy with her life working 5x a week...I'm working 5x a week and going on vacation next week. Both of us have busy lives, so it was good to talk to her. I'm not going to play any games...I'm just going to treat her like everyone else. We joked around a few things and it was overall, a good conversation. I'm not plotting any games or anything. I'm just going with flow...After I told her that I hadda get going she said something like, "Well it was great to hear from you..I just wanted to see how you were since we haven't talked in awhile...I will talk to you later"

I know she didn't say, "I want to work on the relationship" and I'm fine that she didn't say this. This was probably a test to see how was I and how I would act. And I definitely passed. It was good to talk to her and we will see what happens in the future!

SmartNsexa · Jun 29, 2008, 01:32 AM

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Originally Posted by thekid55

Anyone that has followed my threads knows that my girl at school and I decide to take a break. After about a week of not talking, she called me around 5 yesterday. Since I have not been moping around or doing nothing with my life, I did not see her call. I was out running and trying to better myself. I ended up calling her back around 7. We had a good conversation. For about 10 minutes. She was asking me about my life since we haven't talked in a little while. I asked about her new job and things of that nature. No talk at all about the relationship. No neediness on my half. Plus I haven't been needy at all since we have been apart. She told me that she was making dinner and jello-shots with one of her girlfriends.

She is really busy with her life working 5x a week...I'm working 5x a week and going on vacation next week. Both of us have busy lives, so it was good to talk to her. I'm not going to play any games...I'm just going to treat her like everyone else. We joked around a few things and it was overall, a good conversation. I'm not plotting any games or anything. I'm just going with flow...After I told her that I hadda get going she said something like, "Well it was great to hear from you..I just wanted to see how you were since we haven't talked in awhile...I will talk to you later"

I know she didn't say, "I want to work on the relationship" and I'm fine that she didn't say this. This was probably a test to see how was I and how I would act. And I definitely passed. It was good to talk to her and we will see what happens in the future!

Fantastic.
Remember Love does not know how to subtract, it only knows how to add. Having her as a friend adds to your life.
Cheers!

thekid55 · Jun 29, 2008, 08:25 AM

What do you mean by that? I am interested in her as my girlfriend, but she called and checked up on me recently. The summer will probably only permit us to be friends. I'd rather hear from her once in awhile than never..However, I do wonder what she does on Fridays and Saturdays.

Simple Asian · Jul 2, 2008, 11:25 PM

i hope that i am not too late for this post ...since it been like a week .but anyway ...

so you saying ...you want to be back wit her ? ..or not ? ..

friends would be great right now ...just keep on it .^^ ...

if you want you can ask her out for a hang out ...dinner ....movie ..as FRIENDS >>>^^ catch up



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