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I am shy around some girls. Assertive around other girls. It really depends on the situation. It seems to me that I'm more shy around girls that are exceedingly attractive.
Plus, I do not enjoy failure so shyness might be a blessing sometimes.
maybe this will help, im a quiet shy guy, i hardly ever speak around anyone i dont know, girls in particular, thats only because i dont want to say the wrong thing, or embarass myself by stumbbling over my words. I dont speak much,so sometimes when i talk to get a point across i may trip over what im trying to say, so when i stutter, it really hits me hard, makes me feel like an idiot. but the only reason i stutter is because im shy.
and if its a very attractive girl, you can forget about it. i probably wont even speak at all. lol maybe a hi, and bye, but nothing else. lol
maybe this will help, im a quiet shy guy, i hardly ever speak around anyone i dont know, girls in particular, thats only because i dont want to say the wrong thing, or embarass myself by stumbbling over my words. I dont speak much,so sometimes when i talk to get a point across i may trip over what im trying to say, so when i stutter, it really hits me hard, makes me feel like an idiot. but the only reason i stutter is because im shy.
and if its a very attractive girl, you can forget about it. i probably wont even speak at all. lol maybe a hi, and bye, but nothing else. lol
Does a woman has to ask you out just to get your attention?
lol well its like this: in my last relationship, i met this girl at one of my friends house, she was over there with her friend, she was just sitting on the couch.
i saw her on the couch and in my mind i thought "man, this girl is gorgeous." but i would never tell her. lol my friend actually started talking to her first, well anyways the next day
i told my friend that i was really feeling the girl on the couch and he was like"really", so then i get this call and its him again, he says" remember that girl on the couch"? im like "yea why?" he said " well i told her you like her and shes going to call you today, i gave her your number". my heart dropped to that floor! lol i screamed on him for a good 10 minutes! lol but in the end him playing match maker actually started a pretty good relationship for me.
to tell you the truth if he didnt do that i probably would have never seen her again. sometimes i think my shyness is a curse. lol
you know the funny thing? she actually DID ask me out. lol and i was like "hell yea"! lol
lol well its like this: in my last relationship, i met this girl at one of my friends house, she was over there with her friend, she was just sitting on the couch.
i saw her on the couch and in my mind i thought "man, this girl is gorgeous." but i would never tell her. lol my friend actually started talking to her first, well anyways the next day
i told my friend that i was really feeling the girl on the couch and he was like"really", so then i get this call and its him again, he says" remember that girl on the couch"? im like "yea why?" he said " well i told her you like her and shes going to call you today, i gave her your number". my heart dropped to that floor! lol i screamed on him for a good 10 minutes! lol but in the end him playing match maker actually started a pretty good relationship for me.
to tell you the truth if he didnt do that i probably would have never seen her again. sometimes i think my shyness is a curse. lol
you know the funny thing? she actually DID ask me out. lol and i was like "hell yea"! lol
thanks alizeblu, i think i might have a lunch date(LOL)
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