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    Ilymkpf Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 9, 2012, 11:41 PM
    My girl friend's boyfriend is closer to me than my girl friend.
    He admitted he likes me and loves me and compares me to his girlfriend. However, I don't want any relationship with him. I just want us to be best friends. And I want him to tell his GF (my friend) how close we are to each other. But that of course will be a big question to her, knowing I am not really her close friend, and we're not even in the same college, and I met her boyfriend through alumni gathering 2 years ago. What am I going to do? Please help..
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    Feb 10, 2012, 10:22 AM
    You can't control his actions, but you can control yours.

    If you just see him as a friend, then just be his friend and don't over think things. But if you see him as more than a friend, then you're better off keeping some distance from him to be fair to their relationship.
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    Feb 10, 2012, 09:27 PM
    I think you better back off this one as a friendship will be very awkward if he wants more behind his girl friends back. I think you are pushing things to far. His agenda and motives don't even come close to matching what you want, and cheaters make lousy friends. I mean is obvious isn't it, he doesn't want you to meet his girl friend so take the hint, and back off.

    Plus you should avoid confusion and drama and leave another girls fellow alone.
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    Feb 13, 2012, 09:43 PM
    Thank you very much! I did ask him to not contact me already. I also deleted my twitter and Facebook account so I can "get a life" of my own, and get rid of him. I know it's hard, but its going to be harder if I let things go farther... And I didn't realize that until the time we admitted our true mutual feelings for each other.. And it's very unfair for his girlfriend knowing I'm interacting with his guy.

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