Question on the girls I met...
All right I met these 2 girls at work when they came in to buy stuff. I happened to be where they needed the things they wanted so I helped them out, sporting conversation. Turns out the cuter one of the two... we'll name her Sally... is from IL (I'm from WI) and the other one... who we will call Amanda... is from New Jersy. They are both here for speed skating, and are training for the olympics here, but they are here in Wisconsin to stay here forever. So I ended up giving Amanda my number so they could call me later, which they did. So the next night me and my best friend go to the place they are staying at (like an apt) and just hang out, didn't do anything horribly exciting, but it was a fun night. Now I know they are both into me, but Amanda is kind of frowning because I'm into Sally instead... she's 18... and possibly acts like she's a little young as well. Anyway, Saturday night I make plans to just chill in Sally's apt, just me and her, and we ended up watching a movie, which we never actually did... just laid on her bed and talked. Everything was great... lot of eye contact, smiling, laughing, getting to know each other. Somehow we get on the subject of sex, and asks if I'm a virgin and I say "no but i was until i was 20, what about you?" (I'm 20 almost 21) and she said she was a virgin and that she isn't going to have sex until marriage. I'm like "that's cool with me, doesn't really matter" and she said "most guys say that until the time comes and then they are like 'come onnnnn'", I reply "well not me". Which is 100% true, I never was really into sex to begin with and it doesn't bother me at all. Out of no where somewhere down the line she says "do you think Amanda is cute?". I say "no not really..." and she replies "really? i think she is cute". Then after that she says, "I think you and Amanda would be better together, you don't know what you are getting yourself into, i'm a good girl". I'm like, "it really doesn't effect me". So I just straight up ask her if that was a feeble attempt to tell me I should get with Amanda and not her, and she says "well...no...but..." and wouldn't finish. However the rest of the night went just as well as it did the rest of the time.
Something I should be worried about? I think it might have been an indirect way of saying that 'hey you aren't getting sex, and I'm telling you this now before I get too close to you and anything else happens' sort of thing. Along with 'are you in it for being with me or just a relationship', since I know I could get with either of them.
One last thing...
Now I'm used to dating younger girls then I am, and Sally is 20 years old, but a month older. So what I'm about to explain is little off for me, I know it happens quite often when you are more mature and what not but I'm just not used to it.
We talked Sunday to make some plans for the week, and we should be going out weds. And she said she would give me a call weds. I'm not used to that at all, I'm used to talking to a girl like everyday, especially when things are new. What is your input on this? Taking it slow? This normal? Am I just nervous and worring over stupid things? Etc etc.
Thanks for your input in advance, and reading my life story... probably twice.
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