Jealous over his ex and his female friends
Ok, I KNOW I am being ridiculous. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. His ex is French (something that bothers me in it self cause of the whole glamourous stereotype about french women)- they broke up 2 years ago, were together for 3 years. She has NOT re-entered the picture, so its not like anything has happened to make me feel all this jealousy, in fact he has had zero communication with her in over a year and because of my own internet snooping I know she is engaged to another man. The thing is I know I am prettier than her, I also know he obviously has chosen ME and not her. I know it is not all about looks, but why can't I get these crazy thoughts out of my head. I keep having nightmares about their life together, etc and feeling all insecure and crazy. Why am I being so silly? Please help me grow up! Also on a different subject (but still about my obssessing... ) Do you believe its possible for guys and girls to be "Just Friends" without one or the other wanting more? I have a hard time believing it but maybe that's just based on my own experiences. And I cringe over my guy having "female friends"- he has one and it drives me crazy. He doesn't get together with her face to face, but they do talk on the phone like twice a month to say hey and stay in touch. It bothers me tremendously. I know I am a paranoid and jealous freak--- but I just wanted to see how everyone else feels about it if your b/f has female friends. Thanks in advance for your time.
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