I broke up with my ex 3 months ago.He cried but also told me he only paied attention to our relationship for 3 weeks.God we were dating 6 months.It was same.I loved him so much and I still do.he thinks I was needy and not comfident.Also his family does not like me,because they think i push the relationship too fast.I broke up with him because I found out he was smoking and he never told me.(how can i never found out).But I love him so much so I told him lets work on the relationship again.He told me no.He said we need to improve ourselves apart and want to be friends.I tried to be friend with him for 2 weeks but I found out I will not work for me.I cut off the connation with him to get ove him.I wrothe him a email to tell him that I loved him but we need to go now.He asked me if I do not want to see him again,can he just call me sometimes to say hi.I said no unless you want me back!I cut off the all connaction with him.I never went to drink or do any thing bad.I went o gym,to work to have dinner with friends and date a guy who was intresting in me.I was doing great but I can not forget him and really got ove him.His work mates saw I was having dinner with another guy,after two day my ex send me a message"I heard you are doing good!I hope it is true".After a month he brought me movie that i like for so long.I send him one or two message after that.And last weekend I had some problem with a guy just want to have sex with me and message me everyday even I told him no.I did not know how to let him to leave me aglone.He drive me so crazy.I cried and called my ex.He talked to me for a while and told me would call me this weekend to see how am I doing.I feel so bad,because I still love him and still want to be with him,but my brain know that I can not because the only time I can be back with him is he wants me to be back so much.I should not make that call may be.But what should I do now.If I stared to contect with him I would get even more hurt.But if I just don't answer his call,what lind person I am.I called him when i was in hard moment,also in my hear(not brain) I want to hear from him so much.

ChihuahuaMomma

Don't talk to him. He doesn't sound like he is interested in you. Move on. Wait for someone that will treat you with respect.

MasuBhat

move on is a gud thing to do ..but go slowly..[steadly]..because i can si that how much it's hurting u..

talk with on the ph is no problem but don't talk to long..this helps a lil.
try luking at him as ur ex....
if you don't want to be frn with him..than stop talking at all..jsut respond a lil when he buzzes!

happyJenny

Thank you so much.I think I should just move on