What do I do when I don't think my boyfriend really likes me?

brittneybam · #1 May 24, 2008, 02:35 AM

I don't think my boyfriend really likes me. We never talk about anything. I talk to his best friend more than I talk to him. And he can be very cruel sometimes.

He doesn't care about ANYTHING! I don't know if I should break up with him or not! I also think that he likes his ex- girlfriend that still likes him! And she is one of my best friends!

JBeaucaire · May 24, 2008, 07:06 AM

The ONLY reason you date someone is to have your life be enhanced and to enhance their life. OK?

Your short and to the point post points out that you can find no way to enhance his life and he does nothing for you. So other than some random feelings you can't control, what are still hanging around for?

Free his disinterested butt up to go be bored with someone who maybe LIKES that. It's not you, right? If that's your best friend, wish them both well!

Breathe some fresh air and find some boys who actually have a life and hang around with them. There's no need for you to settle down exclusively with someone until AFTER you've verified they are interesting, funny, involved in things that make them not boring...etc.

You get the idea.

f104 · May 24, 2008, 05:28 PM

[quote=JBeaucaire]The ONLY reason you date someone is to have your life be enhanced and to enhance their life. OK?QUOTE]

I agree with this 100%



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