hi i am boylover321
i like this boy named adam and he likes me 2.What should i say to him? we flirt all the time? i want to go out with him but want about my family. he is mix{black and white} and i am white What should i do?

danielnoahsmommy

tough spot to be in. since you appear to be young. abide by your parent wishes till you are old enough to venture out on your own. once you are independent do as you please

smearcase

It is a toughie for sure. Number 1-get your parents input.
It will prob impact the rest of your life in either a good way or a bad way.
You have to be mature enough to consider all the ramifications before you can make a good decision. I have a relative who, in my opinion destroyed her life but from her perspective maybe is satisfied. What I imagined for her future isnt necessarily what she wanted. But she has had constant turmoil for at least 20 years. To some degree, I dont think she was accepted by her husbands (3 to date) families. How about just friends for a few years?

N0help4u

I go with friends for a few years. If you have no idea if your parents would freak out over you being with a bi racial boy it could be a problem. They could forbid you to see him. Be his friend and by the time you are ready to graduate you should know if it is worth pursuing a deeper relationship or not.