ok i first met this girl when she had moved to my school. right when i had seen her i knew she was the one. from that day on my love for her grew and grew. we became friends and started talking. i finnaly asked her out and she said that she had to think about it. so a couple of days went by and we kept talking and talking i asked her to the movies and she said yes i rwaly thought i had found the right girl. well the time had come and she said no she didnt want to go out with me so i said ok. we where still friends though and i still loved her and wanted her. one day i went over her house and she had toled me that her and another guy (who is skinny and more atractive) had been over there house and that they had sex. i acted like it didnt bother me but when i went home that day i was crying all nite. i know that he only wants to go out with her for sex but i want to go out with her because i realy love her not because i want to do that stuff to her. now im realy upset and praying that they dont go out i really need some help what should i do?

ISneezeFunny

...how old are you?

Obviously this girl doesn't know what she wants...I feel like even if you two get together, it won't bode well for you until she matures.

N0help4u

Be a friend and if and when their relationship crumbles she knows she has a shoulder to cry on and maybe she will see you were the better choice.

thisismylife1

thank you so much!