I dated a woman for nearly 5 months. She broke it off with me a few weeks ago. I wasn't sure how I felt at first, but after a couple of months, I became close to her. She broke it off with me, the night before I was leaving for a vacation I had planned, through a phone call. I was devastated. She told me, "She wanted to be alone and that she didn't want to be with me..." This was VERY hurtful to hear. She told me, "She liked me as a friend and that she thought I was "GA-GA" for her..." She told me, "I was scaring her..." We always had a good time together, never argued and did alot for each other. It turns out, I met her through work, which is making it even worse to cope with. Even though i don't work with her, i see her from time to time walking around outside. This really sucks...! Since that phone call, I encountered her once outside and tried talking with her. I was smiling and told her i had a GREAT time on my vacation(even though i didn't...). I asked her if she wanted her stuff back, which was at my place, and she responded by telling me to "Throw it out". She didn't seem too interested in talking with me and I haven't heard from her since. I'm thinking she wants to move on and forget all about me. What should I do, if I really want her back in my life...? Should I make any contact...? An email...? phone call...? Easter card...? Anything...? Or should I just let sleeping dogs lye, even though it's killing me...? Please help..... Btw, I'm 40 and she's 35.
Thanks,
SJ
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