Should I call him?

cuty_pie · #1 Jul 19, 2007, 09:26 AM

Hi... so here is my question... I went on a date with this guy last night... Actually we knew each other from about 10 years ago. Back then he was interested in me and I was not... We are both recently single.

We went to dinner and after words we went to see a show.. we then went to have a drink and we ended the date at midnight (cause I was working today).

I fell that it went very well and that we both had a very pleasant time. He also seems to be somewhat shy and not the type of guy that would initiate the first kiss on the first date.

My problem is that I would write him an email saying that I had a great time and all but his ex left wit the PC (we started communicating by email). I would also wait to see if he calls but because my ex still comes around to pick up some sutff I am sure that he won't call me at home...

I would truly like to see him again and go on another 'date'. We also have a trip planned with a friend and I am sure that it's the type of activity he would like and he did meet my friend last night and they got along great... Should I call him and ask him if he would like to come???

Thanks for your advise!!!

Lotz_of_Questions · Jul 19, 2007, 10:56 AM

Call Him! You say your date when well, let him know by calling and inviting him to the trip.
You have nothing to lose girl!

Good Luck

victoria_mitchell · Jul 19, 2007, 01:02 PM

HELL YEAH! This is EXACTLY how I got with my current boyfriend/future husband lol except my boyfriend was in your position. You could be missing out on the oppertunity of a life time. Jump on this oppertunity because if you don't the worse part is you'll never know what may or may not have happened, and you will regret it later.

taeshawn · Jul 20, 2007, 10:13 AM

Yes of course you should call, there's all the reasons why he cant call an u say he's shy so definately CALL HIM!!!!!

s_cianci · Jul 21, 2007, 07:40 PM

Go ahead. You've got nothing to lose.

yoitzlisa · Jul 21, 2007, 08:45 PM

Call Him .

WillL300 · Jul 21, 2007, 09:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cuty_pie

Hi... so here is my question... I went on a date with this guy last night... Actually we knew each other from about 10 years ago. Back then he was interested in me and I was not... We are both recently single.

We went to dinner and after words we went to see a show.. we then went to have a drink and we ended the date at midnight (cause I was working today).

I fell that it went very well and that we both had a very pleasant time. He also seems to be somewhat shy and not the type of guy that would initiate the first kiss on the first date.

My problem is that I would write him an email saying that I had a great time and all but his ex left wit the PC (we started communicating by email). I would also wait to see if he calls but because my ex still comes around to pick up some sutff I am sure that he won't call me at home...

I would truly like to see him again and go on another 'date'. We also have a trip planned with a friend and I am sure that it's the type of activity he would like and he did meet my friend last night and they got along great... Should I call him and ask him if he would like to come???

Thanks for your advise!!!

Yes, calling him would be a good idea. If things seemed to go well, then it's definitely worth a shot at it.

Clough · Jul 21, 2007, 09:59 PM

Please just call him. The personal touch of communicating by voice is best.



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