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ok well theres this boy i new him since last year at football. i really like him well actually i love him.i went out with him last year and he said he loved me and all these other things and then we broke up because his mom didnt want him to have a girl friend becuse he was failing. so we stoped talking for a while, and then i finaly called him and we started talking again. well i now im in love with him but i really dont think he feels the same way he acts like it and his friend told me he told him that he loved me and that he dosent want to loose me. but he nows i want to go out with him and i dont now why he dosent want to go out with me.he even told me he liked me, i thought it was because befor he was in the same situation and the girl moved and he hasnt heard of her yet.so i think hes just scared to try love again but i dont now. im really confused because theres this girl that likes him said that she is going out with him but then again she makes no sense in anything she says.so i really dont now what to think anymore. can u pleas hep me?? sincerly,
confused gurl.
His mom still dictates who he is allowed to like or not like ??? Sounds like you both still have time to get to know each other. He knows you are interested so maybe you should show interest in someone else to see if he makes contact with you then. Nothing like the jealous streak in all of us to get us to step forward. If he doesn't care that you are seeing someone else, then it may be time to move on. --- Ace
ACE,
no it's not like that his mom dictates who he is allowed to date. she wouldent let him go out with anyone because he was failing,thats why..... but i think he does get jelous when i talk to other boys. he told his friend he loved me but i dont now what to think if he's lieing or saying the truth. and his friend would never lie to me... and he even told me im self he liked me but i thinki that he's scared to show what he really feels. what do you think?? idk but he said he's coming over saturday but idk because he always says he's coming over and then he never does. i think hes scared or idk im really confused. so yeah,i went out with this one boy in the football team that he nows and it looked like he was jelous he didnt want to talk to me or the boy, and i told him ok then ill break up with him and then will you talk to me and he was like i dont now. and i said if i dont?? and he said then im not going to talk to you.. so i broke up with the boy i was going out with. and till this day we are talking again and he told my brothers he liked me and that he might go back out with me. but i just want him to notice how myuch i like him but i dont now how to explain it. and also theres girls that ask him out and he says no to every girl and i dont now why... so can u help me??
sincerly,
confused gurl..
ok well theres this boy i new him since last year at football. i really like him well actually i love him.i went out with him last year and he said he loved me and all these other things and then we broke up because his mom didnt want him to have a girl friend becuse he was failing. so we stoped talking for a while, and then i finaly called him and we started talking again. well i now im in love with him but i really dont think he feels the same way he acts like it and his friend told me he told him that he loved me and that he dosent want to loose me. but he nows i want to go out with him and i dont now why he dosent want to go out with me.he even told me he liked me, i thought it was because befor he was in the same situation and the girl moved and he hasnt heard of her yet.so i think hes just scared to try love again but i dont now. im really confused because theres this girl that likes him said that she is going out with him but then again she makes no sense in anything she says.so i really dont now what to think anymore. can u pleas hep me?? sincerly,
confused gurl.
Ok, What u should do is tell him exactly how u feel about him. it seems that the only thing he knows is that you want to go out with him. tell him u love him and that u want to be with. I know that the mother has nothing against you, it's just that her son was failing in school. Parents will usually do things like that{anything} for their kids to do good in school. Tell him u want to be with him no matter what and ask him do he want to be with you no matter what because u love him. Good Luck!
Don't let him hold all the "Aces", give him a certain time to show up then if he doesn't show I would make sure I was not available. Even if you have to pretend to be on a date, I would go to the mall or something. Just don't hang around like a sick puppy. As long as you are always available, he has nothing to worry about. Make yourself scarce and have him chase you a bit. Again the jealous streak can be a powerful tool. I would certainly not want to be "seconds". I would want to be number one on his mind. Not just a fillin.
ACE,
ok thats a good idea well he basically asked me to the movies tomarow but he isnt sure if he can get the money. so i dont think he's going to go. but idk im stil confused he likes to play around with me alot but he dosent like when i play aroud with other boy why is that??
confused gurl.
Confused Gurl,
Sounds like a game to me. If he plays the game, then you should also. Girls and Boys, or Women and Men, or however you wish to see it, want to be number UNO. Not seconds!!! His getting upset when you "play around" with other boys is an indication he is watching. Play some more. If he can't get the money together to take you to the movies, then that means he is not really serious about spending time with you. Not sure how old you are or the boyfriend to be is, but sounds like he should have a job enough to come up with the cash to take you to a movie even if he has to ask his parents for funds. I have a 16 year old son and he doesn't hesitate to ask me for anything he wants. -- Ace
ACE,
this is goin to b the last week of football so basically if he dont want to chill wit me den i wnt b able to c him.. but thats really going to gurt me because i love him yeah boys ask me out but i always say no because i love him and i can't 4get bouot him.. the reason is why is because his mom dont give im money shes not like that, and i now he looks at me because every time i c him looking at me then he looks away when i look at him but sometimes he just stares for a lil then he trys to act hard like playing wit me..... but i dont now i really want to be with him, but i dont now bout him...he likes to get me jelous like he nows when he talks about girls around me like how they like him he always mention it in front of me like on purpose to get me jelous but i dont now why.. he nows i do get jelous like that.. can u help me
confused gurl
ok well theres this boy i new him since last year at football. i really like him well actually i love him.i went out with him last year and he said he loved me and all these other things and then we broke up because his mom didnt want him to have a girl friend becuse he was failing. so we stoped talking for a while, and then i finaly called him and we started talking again. well i now im in love with him but i really dont think he feels the same way he acts like it and his friend told me he told him that he loved me and that he dosent want to loose me. but he nows i want to go out with him and i dont now why he dosent want to go out with me.he even told me he liked me, i thought it was because befor he was in the same situation and the girl moved and he hasnt heard of her yet.so i think hes just scared to try love again but i dont now. im really confused because theres this girl that likes him said that she is going out with him but then again she makes no sense in anything she says.so i really dont now what to think anymore. can u pleas hep me?? sincerly,
confused gurl.
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