I have known a guy for two years now. We meet when both of us were in the process of separation of our spouses. He decided that we should back off from each other due to me getting to close. I was hurt, but after a couple of weeks got over it. I one day 6 months later contacted him to see how he was doing. He was glad to hear from me surprisingly. He woudl start telling me what he would like to do with me and to me it appears that maybe he wants to try again with me. Being lonely... I respond back... afterwords he is happy, I don't hear from him for a week or two... Then he will send me hello's and little pictures of him self to which that is risky when your number is attached to it. If I don't respond, he will call me and ask what is up. This has been going on for now two years. Am I crazy to want him? I am afraid to ask, but I need to know... I need to tell him to go away? Please be honest with me. I am a big girl.

in a state

if you like him i think it's ok to see him if he asks.based on what i've understood,he probably was too hurt from his separation to get involved with you back then,but he might be healed now and ready to see you

George_1950

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