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Asked Mar 29, 2010, 09:38 PM — 6 Answers
Dear sir/madam
I want to ask you that my girlfriend wants to breakup from me when I asked why then she replied that I m mentally disturb then I said that it is not a reason to separate but she replied that it is a very big reason. Now I want to ask you that she is right or wrong or may be any other one in her life

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Mar 29, 2010, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted by prabhatkumar View Post
dear sir/madam
I want to ask you that my girlfrnd wants to breakeup from me when I asked why then she replid that I m mentaly disturb then I said that it is not a reason to seprate but she replied that it is a very big reason. Noe I want to ask you that she is right or wrong or may be any other one in her life
We really can't tell you if she's right or wrong, we don't know if you are or aren't mentally disturbed.

If you are then that is a very good reason to break up.
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Mar 29, 2010, 09:50 PM
Is this the same girl?

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-s...ng-459984.html

If so, then she may have a point about the mental issues.

Just my opinion.
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Mar 30, 2010, 05:28 AM
I completley agree with Alty. You pressured her for sex, and then got up set because you stated you had a "right" to do what you wanted, when you wanted.

So maybe you should take a step back and re evaluate your relationship. I think you have a jaded idea of how women are suposed to be treated. She is not a sex object and you do not own her or her body.

If you really care about her why don't you take some classes on a healthy relationships? Maybe you guys could take one together.

Is there any other reason she may think you are mentaly disturbed?
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Mar 31, 2010, 09:13 PM
You need to look at your own behavior. Certainly you don't seem to have much understanding or empathy with your girlfriend and her emotional needs.

Sticking your fingers in her vagina while you're on a bus beggars belief, I would suggest.

If you don't have the capacity to understand that she thinks you're emotionally disturbed and this affects her willingness to be with you - then that is disturbing in itself.
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Apr 1, 2010, 04:53 AM
I agree Gemini, spot on!
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Apr 1, 2010, 10:18 PM


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now I want to ask you that she is right or wrong or may be any other one in her life
She is right and any reason she comes up with is right.

You have a lot to learn about romancing females my friend, an awful lot, especially after you have proposed to her.

Is she your first? Why treat her like a piece of meat? I would dump you too!
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