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she wants to go on another date 2 days after out first one,
Hi, me and this girl, amanda who i happen to really like went on a date sunday night and we had a great time. For out 2nd date she wants to go out this tuesday and i dont know if its a good idea cause its pretty close to our first date.
I dont want to say the wrong thing because i really like this girl and she told me that she really likes me to and that she wants me as her boyfriend A.S.A.P.
Any answer will be thanked!!!
By the way, I'm 15 and she is 14 and were both freshman in high school.
Thanks for that one, i told her that i wanted to savor the first date and that we were moving a bit fast for me and thankfully she understood. thanks!!
Females just LOVE it when their men tell them that they want to savor something! Men must learn that we females are big on emotional stuff and want to hear them buy into that too.
I'm glad it worked! (I bet she is sitting down right now staring out the window and dreamily thinking, "Oh, my! He's SAVORing our being together! Ooooooooooohhhhhhhhh! I really like him a lot.")
Haha i hope so to, she tells me that she really likes me every once in a while and its nice to hear cause i say it right back!! HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYBODY!!!
I i only want to be in a relationship because its someone that you can trust with everything, tell anything to, spend time with, have fun around by being yourself and not having to fake anything, and its someone who likes you for who you are.
I appreciate your answer tremendously! I will keep that in mind as my son grows a little older... right now he is 10 and dating is not something he wants to do... He clearly says when he is older...
Anyways, my brother's philosophy with his 7 kids is that the purpose of dating is to find a life time partner, and if they are not ready to make that kind of commitment, then they don't have a reason to date. I was kind of hesitant to accept that philosophy, and now with your answer, I know why.
In my opinion the purpose of dating is really to have fun and find the kind of person you like to be around. Maybe you like someone funny, someone serious, someone tall, someone short, maybe someone with experience, maybe without experience. I'm only 15 so I don't have much on this subject, I just know that everyone has a different opinion on it.
Have a great new year too.
I also have a question, when is a good time to go for the first kiss?
First kiss: You've walked her to her front door. The two of you have been chatting about the movie and about the fun you've had. She thanks you for a nice time. You chuckle and tell her the pleasure was all yours. She smiles. The conversation stops. She looks down at her feet. You put your fingers under her chin and gently raise her face so she is looking at you. You tell her how lovely she is. She sighs softly and closes her eyes. You move your hand so it briefly caresses the side of her face then immediately move your hand to the middle of her back, pulling her upper body a bit forward as you lean over to lightly brush her closed lips with yours.
And that would be about the time the porch light comes on, she slaps you, her dad loads his shotgun, and the entire highschool jumps up from behind the bushes to see if you wet yourself....
I would love to do that but I can't. I'm only 15 and dont have a license and dont recieve one for another year. Plus, I don't need my dad to see me do that. Especially cause when i get back to the car hes gonna be annoying me about it the whole way home. Is there another time that would work?
First kiss: You've walked her to her front door. The two of you have been chatting about the movie and about the fun you've had. She thanks you for a nice time. You chuckle and tell her the pleasure was all yours. She smiles. The conversation stops. She looks down at her feet. You put your fingers under her chin and gently raise her face so she is looking at you. You tell her how lovely she is. She sighs softly and closes her eyes. You move your hand so it briefly caresses the side of her face then immediately move your hand to the middle of her back, pulling her upper body a bit forward as you lean over to lightly brush her closed lips with yours.
The rest is up to you.
Really sounds like the classic movie/soap opera. Very ideal but unfortunately doesn't happen too often. In my opinion a first kiss should be when you guys know each other better....it should be when you are already dying to give one or ready to...and spontaneous not planned. It's something that should just come right at the moment. Something mutual. But that's just my opinion.
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