Hi, me and this girl, amanda who i happen to really like went on a date sunday night and we had a great time. For out 2nd date she wants to go out this tuesday and i dont know if its a good idea cause its pretty close to our first date.


I dont want to say the wrong thing because i really like this girl and she told me that she really likes me to and that she wants me as her boyfriend A.S.A.P.


Any answer will be thanked!!!

By the way, I'm 15 and she is 14 and were both freshman in high school.

talaniman

The intense feelings are love in a way, young love. You will also feel a lot of intense emotions, and think its love because for now it will hurt so good. We all go thru this awakening process, so have fun with it. It wont always be fun and games.

schwartzyms

yea, im thinking its feelings weird because even though my ex and i are over 1000 miles away from eachother i still said "love" to her ans she meant the world to me and then she cheated on me and it hurt alot. I got up the courage to say it to my girlfriend now and im happy i did, i just dont like the wierdness

KD33

What I think about it is well she is in a rush...she's probably just nervous but you need to make it known that well..guys get nervous too! And she probably wants to go out with you again tuesday because she's into you, she wants to learn more about you. Girls do that sometimes and we serriously don't mean to take it too fast or slow...guys do it too. So if it's bothering you just make it so she can understand your not as fast as everyone else is...she'll understand.

jrebel7

Ok, I think somewhere in the thread, I have gotten confused. I was thinking you stated earlier that you had not kissed anyone but maybe you just meant you had never kissed this new gal??? I reread the thread. When you mention the ex 1,000 miles away and you had told her you love her, I am wondering if I have not just misunderstood all along. If so, my posts probably seemed a little confusing to you. If you alread told one gal you love her and now this one, and saying this other one cheated on you, I would suggest thinking it through a little longer before confessing your feelings too much to any gal. I apologize Sch if I misunderstood everything. I know this can be a confusing time in life but it is also such an amazing time in life. I didn't want to add to your confusion by my posts. Just know that I wish you well, think things through, enjoy the journey and be honest with what is in your heart. Be honest, not only with yourself but with the girl. Best to you.

schwartzyms

tuank you and I understand that u got confused. My ex and I had a LDR. Thank you all 4 your advice, I'm very grateful.