Hi, me and this girl, amanda who i happen to really like went on a date sunday night and we had a great time. For out 2nd date she wants to go out this tuesday and i dont know if its a good idea cause its pretty close to our first date.


I dont want to say the wrong thing because i really like this girl and she told me that she really likes me to and that she wants me as her boyfriend A.S.A.P.


Any answer will be thanked!!!

By the way, I'm 15 and she is 14 and were both freshman in high school.

Wondergirl

Go somewhere to eat? to get ice cream? to a big mall?

schwartzyms

well she asked if i wanted to go to a fire that were parents and grandpa and cousins and sister are going to be at and i dont know if i should


i want to spend time with her but i dont know if im ready to spend time with her and her family, and plus im a really shy person

Wondergirl

a fire?

schwartzyms

like bon fire

Wondergirl

You sound like a very fun person. Go to the fire and print in black marker and wear a name tag that's says "I'm shy - be gentle" with a smiley face on it or some such thing. Her family will think you are so cute and adorable.

schwartzyms

seriously? haha I will so do that

schwartzyms

I'm nervous about being asked questions by her dad. Do you know any questions that are commonly asked?

Wondergirl

Lemmee see --

"How's school?"
"What classes do you have?"
"Have you thought about what you want to do after high school?"
"Do you have any pets?"
"What's your favorite sport?"
"What's your favorite team?"
'Who's your favorite player?"
"What's your favorite make and model of car?"
"Who would you vote for for president if you could vote?" (tricky one)
"Are you planning to marry my daughter?"

Here's a fabuous site I just came across a few minutes ago. It helps with all sorts of questions and problems in relationships and dating including how to unhook a bra one-handed --

Relationships how to articles from wikiHow

Here are a few "meeting her father" pointers from that site --

- Smile a lot and laugh at jokes that are told. Ask the father questions and engage him in conversation. People love to talk about themselves, so act interested in what he has to say! Also, ask questions about your girlfriend. Fathers are proud and love to see that their children are admired and cared for. Do not dominate the conversation entirely. Talk about yourself, but make sure it is a two-way conversation. You are learning about each other.

- Speak respectfully of your own parents and family when discussing them. It shows that you have respect for your elders and that you maintain a loving relationship with them.

- Keep your cool. If the father’s personality clashes with yours and you dislike being around him, don’t forget that he raised the girl you love and grin and bear it. If your relationship lasts, he will always be a part of your life. Be as polite as possible.

- Thank him (and the mom) verbally after the party or dinner or picnic or get-together and send a thank you note by mail when you get home. People love getting thank you notes; it is a thoughtful gesture.

- After the meeting, make sure to tell him that it was a pleasure meeting him and you look forward to seeing him again in the future!

schwartzyms

thanks alot!!

oneguyinohio

There's always the father's question of... What are your intentions with my daughter?

and....

Have you heard about my gun collection?