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she wants to go on another date 2 days after out first one,
Hi, me and this girl, amanda who i happen to really like went on a date sunday night and we had a great time. For out 2nd date she wants to go out this tuesday and i dont know if its a good idea cause its pretty close to our first date.
I dont want to say the wrong thing because i really like this girl and she told me that she really likes me to and that she wants me as her boyfriend A.S.A.P.
Any answer will be thanked!!!
By the way, I'm 15 and she is 14 and were both freshman in high school.
I don't know when we will be, if we hang out at her house the door will always be open, and at my house the door will only be open if my mom is home because my dad trusts me.
If you mean strange in a way that she just wants sex or something, im not into that at this age, dont get me wrong i want to do it, but doing it at this age is just plain stupid because theres a 5% chance that a condom wont work and that 5% could happen to you at anytime and that means that you just screwed up your life at a very young age
If you mean strange in a way that she just wants sex or something, im not into that at this age, dont get me wrong i want to do it, but doing it at this age is just plain stupid because theres a 5% chance that a condom wont work and that 5% could happen to you at anytime and that means that you just screwed up your life at a very young age
I don't really mean she wants sex. There's probably nothing wrong with it considering her age. It's just strange to me 'cause no way in heck would I ever say that or even think it just from a first date. Maybe it's just my old age and my tendency to be suspicious of people. Just forget I said that, it was a stupid thought.
If you mean strange in a way that she just wants sex or something, im not into that at this age, dont get me wrong i want to do it, but doing it at this age is just plain stupid because theres a 5% chance that a condom wont work and that 5% could happen to you at anytime and that means that you just screwed up your life at a very young age
You sound like a person who thinks things out carefully and thoughtfully. I commend you for wanting to wait. As far as the kiss, one of the kisses I received that has stayed with me was when I was 15, went out with a guy two years older so was nervous. It was a group party in the evening outside. I did not kiss guys on the first date because to me a kiss was so special. Toward the end of the evening, he was just holding my hand and kissed me on the cheek. We ended up dating for almost four years, never did consumate the love because of my convictions to wait until marriage but sure enjoyed the holding, kissing and such. He was respectful of that even though he wanted to go further.
The sensuality of the kiss has been done away with it seems with relationships moving so fast. To me there is nothing so sensual as a time when you feel the breath of the one you care about on your cheek as he leans in and gently touches his lips to yours in a sweet and caring kiss, gentle but firm, pulling you toward him. "Airbrused kisses" as I like to call them where the lips barely touch for a bit then end in a sweet deep kiss are remembered long after for me. There is plenty of time for the passioate kissing that moves into another area.
Best of luck as you continue to make good choices for your life.
Were going to the beach when it starts to get dark out. I can't wait for us to have some alone time to just talk and be together. I really like this girl and i want to be with her for a long time. I want to make the first kiss memorable but i dont even know how to kiss.