| is she being real with me?
Hey all! Question for you guys, heres the situation, I'll try to keep it short:
My gf maybe a couple months ago made me think that she wasnt honest with me, I didnt want to pick on her with my own insecurities, so I left it alone, never even mentioned it to her. It was because I asked her if she had fun one night after she was hanging out with friends. She replied "yes I had fun, yea I was so tired last night I'm glad I got a lot of work done" To me that speech pattern and what she said made no sense about anything, so it seemed that it was some sort of lie to cover up what she really did that night. But as I said I didnt say anything about that and left it alone.
Recently I just get the feeling that she talks to (possibly more) other guys. She still logs on to the dating site that I met her on. She has been there at least 3 times a week for the last couple months. Actually I hacked into her account to see if she was talking to anyone, she hadnt sent any messeges to anyone, but she did send winks, and there is an option to choose if you think youd match well with someone, her and a couple guys have clicked that to each other. I got suspicious because why would she keep going on that site, we have been together for 7 months now. So today I created a fake profile, pretending to be someone else. Now she lists her contact info if you want to chat with her, so it was easy to start chatting with her as this other guy.
So far she has revealed to me that she doesnt have a boyfriend, and is "fishing" around, since shes "just got out of a 7 year relationship". She went into detail to me about what kind of guy she likes etc. So as you can imagine I am pissed off.
My question: Is she cheating on me already? Should I break up with her? Tell her that I caught her? or maybe keep up with the fake profile to get more proof? how do you all think I should deal with this issue? I appreciate all of your help in other posts, and I respect you guys opinions
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