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grussia · Oct 16, 2007, 02:13 PM

This is our 1st sex time. It is so confusing I need an answer of what to do.

J_9 · Oct 16, 2007, 02:21 PM

How old are you?

Keatts16 · Oct 22, 2007, 05:50 PM

Its not confusing at all. The confusing part is your question. "this is our 1st sex time. It is so confusing i need an answer of what to do." does that mean you have already had sex for the first time? Or does it mean that you think you are going to have sex for the first time? Either way, if you are going to be in a sexual relationship, both of you need tested for std's. Also, consider birth control. Talk with your partner about what would happen if something went wrong and there is a baby. (I am 15 and I spent 3 weeks thinking I was pregnant. I found out I wasn't, and a month later my boyfriend left me). Make sure you know how to use condoms, and remember, this is a big step for any relationship. It can make it worlds better, or it can tear you apart. Make sure you won't have any guilt for reasons such as parrents/religion. The guilt of knowing you let people down is the worst thing about it.

josh411 · Oct 23, 2007, 06:21 PM

Originally Posted by Keatts16

its not confusing at all. the confusing part is your question. "this is our 1st sex time. It is so confusing i need an answer of what to do." does that mean you have already had sex for the first time? or does it mean that you think you are going to have sex for the first time? either way, if you are going to be in a sexual relationship, both of you need tested for std's. also, consider birth control. talk with your partner about what would happen if something went wrong and there is a baby. (I am 15 and i spent 3 weeks thinking i was pregnant. i found out i wasnt, and a month later my boyfriend left me). Make sure you know how to use condoms, and remember, this is a big step for any relationship. it can make it worlds better, or it can tear you apart. make sure you wont have any guilt for reasons such as parrents/religion. the guilt of knowing you let people down is the worst thing about it.

15 is also way too young to have sex, a condom, and birth control can't stop 100% from having stds or a baby. Trust me all guys around that age just want sex, when I was 16 that's how I was, and I regret being that way so much, I just wanted sex, and now I don't even care about it, I just want a strong relationship with someone, that I can truthfully care about. NO SEX! You have no idea how much you really will regret it in a few years.

chevy666 · Oct 23, 2007, 06:48 PM

Originally Posted by josh411

15 is also way too young to have sex, a condom, and and birth control can't stop 100% from having stds or a baby. Trust me all guys around that age just want sex, when I was 16 thats how I was, and I regret being that way so much, I just wanted sex, and now I don't even care about it, I just want a strong relationship with someone, that I can truthfully care about. NO SEX! You have no idea how much you really will regret it in a few years.

She's right, I lost my virginity when I was 13 n I've regretted it ever since I know you like really want to do it n you may feel like u love this guy, but that feeling could change just like that. Just wait you'll be so much happier n the long run n so will your partner

caralyn151 · Oct 23, 2007, 10:49 PM

I believe no one can tell you when or when not to have sex. That's not their decision to make, its yours. So if your confused and you don't know what to do, then its probably not the right time for you. I knew I was ready when my heart said yes, my mind said yes, and my body said yes.

statesgirl · Oct 25, 2007, 05:16 PM

If your going to have sex, which you probably are because you have posted this. Be ready for the consequences! Such as the way others treat you if they find out. If you become pregnant! Make sure you are not only ready for sex (birth control, condoms) But also for the emotional damage it can do to you!