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No more contact with him. Not worth the hassle to be honest.

Nope not dating anymore. We kept in touch for a while and actually I developed a very close friendship with some of his friends ironically that I hang out with all the time... but as for me and...

I just don't want to do that. I don't want to punish him for her being psychotic. We work together in IT in Seattle... his parents house is about a 2 hour ferry ride away. He didn't know anyone...

Oh and I should add that my car getting keyed... he instantly stepped up to the plate without hesitation and said he'd pay for my deductible to get it fixed. Also I don't have rental car coverage...

And I am listening to my gut... I am a firm believer in that philosophy... however my gut is telling me that I should give it some more time. I have been through what he is going through in the past...

We have been hanging out and doing things together... but I told him until I feel comfortable and she is out of the picture that we won't be intimate. He completely understands and has been...

So we have been taking it slow and guess what happens...

the ex wouldn't stop calling me or him. We both decided to change our numbers. Then guess what happens... she friggin keyed every panel...

I think I just need time to think things over and take it slow with him... At this point there are too many things I am questioning so maybe friendship is the way to go for the time being.

Well to clarify we still aren't in a relationship... just in the beginning stages of seeing each other... sex before being involved in a serious relationship is a matter of choice... I don't think...

I have been dating a guy for a little over 2 weeks. It has been going great. There is a lot of chemistry and I enjoy his company. So 2 days ago I get a text from a girl saying that he had been...

Hi all,

Posted quite a few questions and comments on here and so thought maybe some of you would have my back.

I submitted myself to go onto the next season of the Real World.

I would...

Why does it matter?

Continually asking if she does or doesn't know why she wants to be with you is mentally torturing yourself... and is irrelevant. At the end of the day you need to accept that...

The point is she did end up finally telling you... you intuitively knew something was wrong and sure she denied it... But that is why we are always told to trust our gut.

Now WHY she denied...

Sometimes there isn't a concrete reason either... other than then just feeling a vibe that you weren't right for each other. Maybe in the beginning it was really the newness and the affection you...

Unless his new girlfriend is someone you personally know and care about than I don't know why you'd be so interested in letting her know. Sounds like you are having trouble moving on and just want...

Put yourself in his shoes... if he was feeling this way I'm sure you'd rather he end it than to waste your time. It may not work out with him or the other guy... but that really isn't the point. ...

Don't regret loving someone sincerely... that is never a bad thing. You obviously loved her for a reason. We have people that come in and out of our lives and they all serve their purpose in...

If someone I was with told me they needed space after 2 years the first question out of my mouth would be why...

But why does she need space... there must be an underlying reason.

So what was her reason for ending it? She had to have given you an explanation...

Only meet her though if she initiates the next contact with you. You have spoken your peace and she knows you obviously don't want to break up... so the ball is in her court. But to be honest......

It just sucks because I really don't have that many girlfriends... I have a 2 girlfriends I see once every few months and this co-worker. So it just sucks losing a girlfriend... (or so I thought)...

Oh yeah... she is a talker and I always listen to whatever drama she has going on in her life. She tried to make it sound like she was more concerned that I date so much... I guess I just don't...

I just had a falling out with a co-worker female friend of mine. We've worked together for about six months or so now. Basically she has become a friend I confide in at lunch hour and occasionally...

I think you should respond and put her out of her misery... Just tell her that you need some time to think things over and you'll contact her when you are ready to talk.

But playing games should not be part of a mature and healthy relationship.

Why does he live at home with his mom?

I think she sounds like a co-dependent girl that is acting like a typical 22 year old. I have a tough time believing that she is with you because you make her happy. Some people just would rather...

Do you get paid overtime?

If yes then most likely yes you are salary but they break it down by the hour and would charge you for those 3 days off.

If no then you may need to have a chat with HR

Guy's do tend to do this a lot... what's up with that!

This all went down Sunday... the conclusion that he's made up his mind is a little too soon to say. When I talked to him on Sunday he said he needed a break... we talked a little casually and then...

Awww I thought that video would be hilarious. He has a great sense of humor... But yeah you could be right.

K that didn't work...

YouTube - Cher - If I Could Turn Back Time

K if I haven't heard back from him by Friday I'm sending him this... haha

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Well I've made it a full 24 hours... I am very depressed. I've had trouble sleeping the last two nights in a row... I just keep replaying last weekend in my head and wanting to go back. He hasn't...

I would say stop sleeping with her. Right now there is no incentive from her eyes to become involved with you. She gets to have you when she wants because she knows you will be there. I would...

Let me just add that right now I am desperately trying to just not contact him and give him time. I just wish there was something I could say or do...

Yeah texting is a great way to not come off as to heavy... Since it has been a month I don't see anything wrong with playing catch up. But if he responds just don't read too much into it.

Ok so here it is... I've been dating a guy for a few weeks now and it's been going amazing. This last weekend we went camping together with some of my friends... I had extremely too much to drink...

Well the only problem with moving for me right now is I have a very well paying government job working in IT. I would consider giving that up and moving later on down the line but not right now...

I want to tell him how I feel but I am afraid that he won't reciprocate. Should I wait to tell him though because we had the "final" conversation a few days ago... The only reason I have doubts...

I personally hate getting picked up in a club because 99% of the guys in there are after one thing... I don't know if you are looking for a girl for the night or looking for the girl of your...

And why would you want to be with someone that is having affairs? Sure sounds like a winner...

Just weigh out the pros and cons too

PROS
1. still working on this one.. I'll get back to you...

CONS
1. not trustworthy 2. lives in a different state 3. makes you a home wrecker

And why would you want to be with someone that is having affairs? He sure sounds like a winner. Maybe you should raise your standards a bit... just a thought. :P

I'ts called a penis... he may love you as a person but he is obviously not IN love with you. Of course he is going to try and sleep with you... but don't let him. It is unfortunate that you had to...

So here is my emotional pardicament... I have fallen for a guy that lives in Montana... the problem is I live in Seattle.

I met him a few months ago in Vegas. I was down there for a...

Well I hadn't talked to Mike since that last conversation and he called me out of the blue last week... I was pretty blunt and said that whatever mythical right timing he is waiting for is crap and...

Both of your quotes at the end are good. Well I am not pushing for anything... in fact I am not contacting him at all. Any communication will be driven by him and him alone. I don't want to drive...

UPDATE:

Well over a week has gone by and he called last night... I actually didn't pick up the first time and he called back again so I answered. He told me that it wasn't that he had a lack of...