Is it possible that my gf is going out with me because of pity?

Rolando Munoz · #1 Jun 18, 2008, 06:25 AM

Altenweg · Jun 18, 2008, 06:29 AM

Why would you think that? We need more info in order to help.

RedneckMama · Jun 18, 2008, 06:40 AM

I would say that anything's possible....but it's impossible for me to know that possibility without more information...could we get that if possible??

Chinee_Ferrer · Jun 18, 2008, 06:56 AM

Can you elaborate on this so that we can help...

JBeaucaire · Jun 18, 2008, 07:50 AM

Whatever her reasons are, you have a chance EVERY SINGLE DAY to be an awesome and confident and self-assured man. (how old are you?)

My wife didn't like me much at all when we first started dating, she sort of "gave in" to my repeated attempts to take her out. Then, she actually had fun. I was fun to be around...still am.

Pity, attraction, politics, geography, hair color...who cares why someone starts going out with someone else? All that matters is that this is an actual opportunity.

Make the most of it. Since most relationships end, meaning yours most likely will end too at some point, make the most of this time. Be a great, non-clingy, ambitious, fun guy. DO yourself and her proud.



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