The Necklace

I think he likes to talk to a lot of girls, and he may think he means what he says, but I would take it to heart. I also think you cared a lot more than he did, and got disappointed, when he didn't work out as you hoped.

Glad your over him though.

Thank you for replying. Everything you said is true, I really was disappointed. But if I am over him, why can't I help thinking and wondering what he meant by acting in such a way? I was over him, but after the goodbye I couldn't stop thinking about him and wore the necklace all the time.

I think you are reading too much into things. It sounds to me like he decided he only wanted to be friends and nothing more when he started ignoring you. Maybe he felt you were getting too serious too fast and he didn't know how to tell you.
He probably does care but looks at you more like 'sister' whereas you took it to mean potential bf/gf and that may have scared him off. He waited until the last day of school to tell you he will always care for you.
That sounds more like a since we are going our own separate ways and I will always have a place in my heart speech than a let's get back together thing.
Just because he doesn't wear the bracelet doesn't mean it isn't special to him.
He could have it in a place at home where he keeps anything special to him.
I don't know how you can get him back in your life since it seems like that is not what he wants.

I guess the necklace works as it certainly keeping him on your mind, isn't it. Maybe putting it away would be for the best.

Yeah get a little box and call it your special memory box and put it in there along with things like old concert stubs and special things that remind you of special people and special places and events.

You’re post Nohelpforyou was eye opening in a way. It is like Like he wanted to show his emotions on the last day so its like it’ll be a forever goodbye. Like he can tell me what he feels and not see me again like in old dramatic movies?

About showing him my emotions I was EXTRA careful not to. I am someone who may be crashing and burning down inside, but will never, ever let the ones on the outside know, and those who know are ones I choose to show or tell them, and he never knew.
I was acting the same way he acted with me, whatever he showed me I showed him, I tried to show him I was always on his level and maybe a little less.

Talenman: about wearing the necklace you are also right. I will put it away. But I don’t know why whenever I go someplace and feel like I may have a slight chance of seeing him, I wear it, just in case, though he didn’t bother to wear the bracelet. Maybe I am reading into things way too much. But I can't help but wonder if at a certain time he wanted to be something and I ignored the signs afraid to be “reading way too much” into things.

As I said, I just wish I could know what he meant and why he did so. Don’t I have the right to have expected a more welcoming or loving meeting after saying I was special to him and always was?

Thank you both for taking the time to post!

Something tells me he did the best he could, and that may be all there is.

I don't think so... Since I was the last one he thought to say hi to, I got a simple hug one like he gave any other girl and sat as far as possible from me and made no conversation what-so-ever as if he never knew me..... See my point? I don't know. The thing is I am planning a trip to the amuzment park with my friends and to be honest it is going to be so bad if he and his crazy best friend weren't there. The thing I may haven't mentioned is that we are all one group of friends. We always sit together and laugh together, but our relationship is strange because since we are so close is school why don't we talk on the phone? Anyways, should I call him OR his friend and invite them? Another problem is I can't find a girl to get the courage to call them instead of me.