Say a younger single guy is seduced into having an affair with an older married women and the sex is amazing but the guy ends up falling in love with her and the women says she's in love with him and wants to leave her husband for him, she says these things over a long period but shows no action to back it up. Should the guy believe anything she says or is she saying what ever she has to in order not to loose the sex? Or what else could it be?

Again, I know the guy getting involved with a married women was a mistake I'm not asking that, I just want to know what the mindset of the married women might be.