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    NewYork123 Posts: 67, Reputation: 8
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    Apr 10, 2009, 08:40 AM
    Make them interested again
    I have been talking to someone for awhile and it was going great, we were talking everyday ALL day practicially and it was exciting and new and lately it just died down. He still texts me and all but its just different and not as much... so my question is, when he texts me and calls should I ignore it for a couple days to make him feel like he's chasing me again? Thanks
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    Apr 10, 2009, 10:31 AM

    If you rather a guy not play games with you don't play games yourself. If you feel things are going down hill then move onto someone else. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

    But if this guy means a lot to you and you really want to be with him then tell him how your feeling rather then try to trick him into being interested again
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    Apr 10, 2009, 10:45 AM

    I think if you were busy with a healthy, BALANCED life, you would be less available, without making a game out of it.
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    Apr 10, 2009, 10:58 AM

    Playing games is silly and what very often happens is that it backfires.
    He may just decide not to text you at all.
    Ask him what is going on,the worst that could happen is you find out the truth.
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    Apr 10, 2009, 11:24 AM

    Thank you everyone.. and talaniman I do have a very balanced life... im very busy and at college it's just I always have my phone right on me to answer a text.. maybe I should start leaving my phone on silent for a long time so that I don't hear every time someone contacts me lol
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