I ask a boy out and I know he like me alot and I like him alot. He said he will email me back but I ask him in person but he has not email me or talk to me. Do it take boys long to think about it because that what he said. Sould I go ask him what he wants to do?

Fawnz23

Play hard to get! let him come to you. Men should step up to the plate and ask girls out. Yes i know this is 2008 and women are the same as men but there are still somethings that should be kept old fashioned.

amy321

Well if I ask him any way is that ok?

Fawnz23

You could ask him if you want to its really up to you if you feel comfortable doing that. Go for it. Ask him! You may like the response you get but make sure the feelings are mutual.

starfirefly

he may be very shy, or he may have a friend who told him he liked you and he wants to make sure its ok to date you first so he doesnt hurthis friend (just a suggestion)

amy321

Why dos it take boys long to think about it and why?

Jack2794

I'm a shy boy and I would kind of be the same as the boy you like, I would be nervous about it. Anyway its better if he takes his time and really thinks about it that if he rushes his answer and doesn't really know if it is what he wants.

amy321

We used to have a thing with each other and I think we still do because I race and he dos to but we have not enter in the same race for away . Should I go up to him and ask him if he has made up his mind would it make him mad?

lil skropy

well im a boy so i think that you should try doing something nice for him and maybe give him something.. notes usually work.. and if u want heres my email..email me at i would b glad to help u out and maybe you can have a chance with him. i helped one of my gal friends so id b glad=)

dr__cat

If he likes you the way you said he do just wait play hard to get, he will come around
It just takes time for a guy to process because guys this day wants to be the bigger person