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    Sep 28, 2008, 10:49 PM
    I love her she loves me but she goes out with my good friend!
    The boyfriend of the girl I love is one of my good mates, I went out with this girl at high school, we were madly in love! It was an obsession!

    After a year I called off the relationship because I wanted to see who else was out there and we were to young at the time. We then stopped talking to each other and soon pretended to hate each other. But we were still in love... she then left school and I hadn't seen her for the past 3 years. We grew apart and I no longer liked her and thought I never would again.

    She then started going out with one of my good friends. They have now been seeing each other for the past 3 years They've been thinking of calling off the relationship but keep getting back together. I have recently been visiting the couple and have been getting along with this girl very well I can't stop thing about her. She's so amazing. And I'm convinced I have fallen back in love with her. We don't stop smiling at each other, I keep catching her looking at me.. We always make each other laugh and I feel like I have a connection with her I've never felt before.

    What do I do?
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    Sep 29, 2008, 12:23 AM

    You keep saying that you two were madly in love while dating, you two were still in love after the breakup, and the couple has been thinking of calling it off.

    ... where are you getting this information from? Where are your sources? Did the girl tell you that she was in love with you while dating, and was still in love with you after the breakup, and is now thinking about calling the relationship off?

    Either the girl's talking to you about these things, or you're making a lot of assumptions.

    Regardless, you get to pick one. Your friend or the girl, and only one of them has some form of certainty... and it's not the girl.

    If the girl and your friend have been together for 3 years, step away. Don't walk, run away from it.
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    Sep 29, 2008, 01:13 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny View Post
    You keep saying that you two were madly in love while dating, you two were still in love after the breakup, and the couple has been thinking of calling it off.

    ...where are you getting this information from? Where are your sources? Did the girl tell you that she was in love with you while dating, and was still in love with you after the breakup, and is now thinking about calling the relationship off?

    Either the girl's talking to you about these things, or you're making a lot of assumptions.

    Regardless, you get to pick one. Your friend or the girl, and only one of them has some form of certainty...and it's not the girl.

    If the girl and your friend have been together for 3 years, step away. Don't walk, run away from it.
    I'm getting the information from my mate I pretend that I don't like the girl and he tells me about there relationship and you just hear things through the grape vine.. while we were going out (age 16) The girl never told me that she loved me directly but we defiantly were in love. She has not told me she loves me while she's been dating my friend. But theirs defiantly some freaky connections going on between me and this girl.
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    Sep 29, 2008, 05:03 AM

    I think you have to let her and your friends relationship take its course,
    Imagine if you told her how you feel and she doesn't feel the same and tells your friend! - Bad scenario!

    If you both are truly meant to be together you it will happen one day, you need to realise that for the moment she is with your friend and you have to respect that
    :)
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    Sep 29, 2008, 05:18 AM

    Leave this female alone, and direct your attentions elsewhere.

    That stuff through the grapevine means nothing, and you have built it into something. You have so many assumptions, to many, to base real actions on, and the biggest thing is you could end up without your mates friendship, and so called love of this female.

    The only facts you have is, it didn't work the first time, love or not, young or not, and she is with someone else now, and hasn't kicked him to the curb, for you.

    Stay out of their business, get your own.
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