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I love her but she has a boyfriend

Asked Jun 1, 2009, 03:11 PM — 19 Answers
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I love one girl, but she has a boyfriend. I am 23 years old, she is 30. Anyway I love her, because she is my ALL. We are friends. Her relationship with her boyfriend started 1 month before, so their relationship is not strong yet. I need to hurry. Because I can't stop loving her, I really want to make her happy forever.

I love her with all my heart, I respect her very much and she is my best friend.

I noticed that the other guy with whom we work together loves her too and trying to capture her heart. I think she is accepting it, but she is not sure. I also want to confess in love, but I really afraid losing her. Sometimes I think that her friendship is enough for me, but my hear burns when I see her talking with him....

Should I tell her the truth or just wait? Give me advice please....

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Jun 1, 2009, 03:23 PM
Back off she have a boyfriend and you love for her sounds more like an infatuation mixed with obsession.

It doesn't matter when their relationship started you should respect it.

Also, even if she didn't have a boyfriend who to say she felt the same way you do?
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Jun 1, 2009, 03:30 PM
I love her and this the point, she also respects me very much, but I think she can't see me as her boyfriend, because I am younger than her. What to do?
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Jun 1, 2009, 03:38 PM
What do you do?

Stop focusing on her and get out there and find someone single. By single I mean they don't already have a boyfriend.
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Jun 1, 2009, 03:49 PM
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What do you do?

Stop focusing on her and get out there and find someone single. By single I mean they don't already have a boyfriend.
Maybe you are right, but she is my angel
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Jun 1, 2009, 03:51 PM
First may I say that this is very romantic. Second, you will miss 100% of the shots you don't take, witch means that she may love you, she may not, but you'll never know if you don't confess your feelings for her. Also try not to do it in a very put her on the spot kind of way, just tell her.
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Jun 1, 2009, 03:52 PM
Respect your friends relationship, and stop the obsession. If you can't then seek counseling.
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Jun 1, 2009, 03:58 PM
I can't forbid my heart you know. Do you mean that I have no chance?
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Jun 1, 2009, 03:58 PM
I disagree with liz28. I think if you really love someone you shoud just go for it beacause your going to regret it your whole life if you don't. And your right, don't wait for their relationship to grow stronger,but don't break them up eaither. Don't do some big romantic gesture that puts her on the spot. Just tell her what she means to you and let her know she has options. And for the age thing, if you act like your 30 then that's what shell see you a. Best of luck
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Jun 1, 2009, 04:02 PM
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I disagree with liz28. I think if you really love someone you shoud just go for it beacause your going to regret it your whole life if you don't. And your right, don't wait for their relationship to grow stronger,but don't break them up eaither. Don't do some big romantic gesture that puts her on the spot. Just tell her what she means to you and let her know she has options. And for the age thing, if you act like your 30 then that's what shell see you a. Best of luck
THANK YOU! My heart belongs to her and I must tell it to her. Thank you very much one more time!
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