long distance relationship is a little too distant

heave_falling · May 18, 2008, 04:45 PM

ive just moved 5 hrs away from my boyfriend of 4 months and theres already problems. but he doesnt see it.

me still getting used to the new area away from family and friends would like to talk to her boyfriend you know for comfort, moral support, to see how hes doing, cause well i miss him. i will not be seeing him for atleast another 3 weeks because of his job. hes always too busy to talk even for a few mins unless its likr past 1 am or hes falling asleep. not really the best time to talk you know. ive tried to talk to him about it, he doesnt get it. hes just too busy. but busy doenst always mean work. it means friends, parties working on his car his friends cars and bikes. no hes not a machanic its just a hobby. when i still lived near him he still found time for me even with all this. we spent everyday together. every weekend we were together. i basically lived at his house on weekends adn after work. why cant he find time for a little phone call? i dont expect to talk to him for hours at a time. but maybe a little phone call every once in awhile? am i being irrational? needy? im used to being able to lay in bed with him and talk tohim about everything for hours. now its hard to get him to talk idk y? it hasnt been that long that ive been gone. its sometimes hard to even get an i love you out of him. what could be wrong? adn is there anyhtign i could do to fix this little problem?

we are both pretty young, im 19 and hes 20. our relationship is fresh and this is something that i would like to keep going but its hard sometimes being alone away at college. i've been in a long distance relationship before and ive seen how fast they can crash adn burn and we were together for more than a year before the fact. and he ended his last relationship when she moved across country and it worries me a little. weve both been through alot already and something like this breakign us up is something kinda small. yet big since comunication is important. and advice would be nice. please and thanks

JBeaucaire · May 18, 2008, 08:30 PM

So, option #2 it is! I wish you the best of results. Deep breaths. Calm.



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