I like him he likes me but he has a gf!

alyxstarxx23 · Sep 13, 2007, 03:34 PM

try to read most of it...

I am in 6th grade and like this boy named Aexander (alex...which is my name too...well alexandria but ppl call me alex too). Alex flirts with me so much its not even funny. and i flirt with him back. in lunch today i was a person apart from him in line and the person inbetween was scott. alex was talking to scott and i heard alex say "shes about as tall as her (as in me) and i said "huh? what about me?" and he said "im talking about my girlfriend" those words echoed in my mind...i have a girlfriend.....(why would he flirt with me if he has a girlfriend??) then he said "she goes to athena. she was supposed to go here but she didnt" i just said "oh...". i've been trying to stay away from him scince lunch because we'll wind up flirting with eachother and since he has a girlfriend it would be wrong for him to like someone else. in H&C (home and careers.....the class after lunch)our teacher chooses where we sit (we sit where our name tags have been placed) but we dont sit in the same spot every class... alex came over to me (i was sitting down) and i said "ur over there" which was totally across the room from me. he said "dang it i wanted to sit next to u" he paused for like a milla second "because ur the only one i know in this class". he complaind and asked the teacher if he could switch but she said "no switching there there for a reason" (which there really wasnt)......all i could do was look at him during class. every so often when im not looking at him i could see him look at me through the corner of my eye. only once did we make eye contact and hen we did we stared at eachother and i smiled he half smiled. it was sort of awkward tho so we looked away at like 7 seconds. a couple other times we would make contact but it would be 4 a milla second then id look away and smile (im a chicken)....at the end of Home and Careers, he was getting his things together and i was on my way to the door. i had to walk by him to get out. i was walking by and he told me to wait outside because he has to tell me something. i thought he was going to like ask me to be his girlfriend but apperently not (thats when i remembered he had a gf.... i found out about them today so i dont know how strong there relationship is but idk) All he did was flirt with me then ask "what do u have next" and i said "science then math" and he said "ill see u wen u go to math bc social studies is right next to it".... all i said was "ok"... when he was going to social studies (after math for him) he came out of math and i was outside the door waiting to go in like everyone else in the class...i didnt know he had math tho. he came out, he flirted with me (or messed around, same as flirting... he poked me and said poke....dont ask, were weird like that XD) i smiled and he smiled then we went to class. i told my friend aubrey what happened about him asking me about i need to wait for him after class and she said OOooOoooooOOOOoo...lol....then i told her what he said and she said thats stupid....i didnt see him in the halls after or when every one was leaving (D.E.A.R. is after math and its the last class of the day and all we do is stay in the room that we are currently in and read).
i am comfortable around him. were friends aleready but we have feelings for eachother (i know he likes me.....trust me). Alex likes me for who i am and not just because im pretty. i guess ill wait for tomorrow. please tell me whats happening sooo srry that its so long its just that i dont know whats going on.....i need advice

think_pink · Sep 15, 2007, 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by alyxstarxx23

thanks for the help

haha no problem
good luck with the guy

p.s : he doesnt sound like a player

as far as i know a player wouldnt walk up a hallway everyday to flirt lol
so go get em

;p

think_pink · Sep 15, 2007, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by alyxstarxx23

btw--i didnt mean literly after every class but like after 2 or 3 of his classes everyday but still, thnx

same thing he still tries to , which is good lol
i wish a guy would do that to me too haha =]

Homegirl 50 · Sep 15, 2007, 07:33 PM

Well I'm sorry, but I don't think kids that age need to be doing any of this. Aside from that, what kind of guy has a gf and flirts with someone elses, and what kind of girl thinks nothing of the fact that the guy has a gf and goes for him anyway? These are not very good patterns to be setting. By the time you are old enough to date, you'll think being two-timed or going aftre someone elses guy is no big deal.

think_pink · Sep 15, 2007, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Well I'm sorry, but I don't think kids that age need to be doing any of this. Aside from that, what kind of guy has a gf and flirts with someone elses, and what kind of girl thinks nothing of the fact that the guy has a gf and goes for him anyway? These are not very good patterns to be setting. By the time you are old enough to date, you'll think being two-timed or going aftre someone elses guy is no big deal.

umm one question : did u read the previous posts??

there's a possibility the guy is actually making the gf thing up so he can make her jelous
and dont tell me it might not happen cuz it happened to me and some friends
beside if u did read earlier you'll see that the she said they just call it gf/bf they dont go out
gosh read before u post

Homegirl 50 · Sep 15, 2007, 07:37 PM

BTW as much as a 12 year old can be a player, if he has a gf and is flirting with you, that kind of makes him a player, which means, he can play on you too.
But it's a different world now so maybe that's no big deal.

think_pink · Sep 15, 2007, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

BTW as much as a 12 year old can be a player, if he has a gf and is flirting with you, that kind of makes him a player, which means, he can play on you too.
But it's a different world now so maybe that's no big deal.

well did u think of the possibility of the person dumping the gf but not telling or something ?
besides like u said its a different world
if u walk in my skool everyone is flirting and most of them got a bf / gf thing going on lol

Homegirl 50 · Sep 15, 2007, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by think_pink

umm one question : did u read the previous posts??

there's a possibility the guy is actually making the gf thing up so he can make her jelous
and dont tell me it might not happen cuz it happened to me and some friends
beside if u did read earlier you'll see that the she said they just call it gf/bf they dont go out
gosh read before u post

But the point is, what if he is not making it up. And what are you telling young kids about honesty when you say, "oh he may be just trying to make you jealous, it doesn't matter if he has a gf, if you like him, go for it"
That is not a good thing to be telling young people.

Homegirl 50 · Sep 15, 2007, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by think_pink

well did u think of the possibility of the person dumping the gf but not telling or something ?
besides like u said its a different world
if u walk in my skool everyone is flirting and most of them got a bf / gf thing going on lol

Oh well, if he dumps one girl for her, that makes it right. And then next month when he sees another one, he can check her out and then dump her for the new one.
Really nice patterns were setting here and it's starting at age 9. My goodness

think_pink · Sep 16, 2007, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Oh well, if he dumps one girl for her, that makes it right. And then next month when he sees another one, he can check her out and then dump her for the new one.
Really nice patterns were setting here and it's starting at age 9. My goodness

12 lol
lmaoo older people get the gf/bf thing over too seriously but us dont anymore
and gosh if he does dump her then she wont be the only one that got dump like come on

Homegirl 50 · Sep 16, 2007, 09:04 AM

You don't get it. Maybe you're too young.
It's not about who's dumping who. This whole thing is about ethics. About really young people being told that it is OK to go after someone even if that someone has a gf/bf or you think they do. That it's not a big deal to dump one person with no regard simply because you see someone else who you think looks better.
It's about allowing young people to start this type of pattern early in life.



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