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I am in 6th grade and like this boy named Aexander (alex...which is my name too...well alexandria but ppl call me alex too). Alex flirts with me so much its not even funny. and i flirt with him back. in lunch today i was a person apart from him in line and the person inbetween was scott. alex was talking to scott and i heard alex say "shes about as tall as her (as in me) and i said "huh? what about me?" and he said "im talking about my girlfriend" those words echoed in my mind...i have a girlfriend.....(why would he flirt with me if he has a girlfriend??) then he said "she goes to athena. she was supposed to go here but she didnt" i just said "oh...". i've been trying to stay away from him scince lunch because we'll wind up flirting with eachother and since he has a girlfriend it would be wrong for him to like someone else. in H&C (home and careers.....the class after lunch)our teacher chooses where we sit (we sit where our name tags have been placed) but we dont sit in the same spot every class... alex came over to me (i was sitting down) and i said "ur over there" which was totally across the room from me. he said "dang it i wanted to sit next to u" he paused for like a milla second "because ur the only one i know in this class". he complaind and asked the teacher if he could switch but she said "no switching there there for a reason" (which there really wasnt)......all i could do was look at him during class. every so often when im not looking at him i could see him look at me through the corner of my eye. only once did we make eye contact and hen we did we stared at eachother and i smiled he half smiled. it was sort of awkward tho so we looked away at like 7 seconds. a couple other times we would make contact but it would be 4 a milla second then id look away and smile (im a chicken)....at the end of Home and Careers, he was getting his things together and i was on my way to the door. i had to walk by him to get out. i was walking by and he told me to wait outside because he has to tell me something. i thought he was going to like ask me to be his girlfriend but apperently not (thats when i remembered he had a gf.... i found out about them today so i dont know how strong there relationship is but idk) All he did was flirt with me then ask "what do u have next" and i said "science then math" and he said "ill see u wen u go to math bc social studies is right next to it".... all i said was "ok"... when he was going to social studies (after math for him) he came out of math and i was outside the door waiting to go in like everyone else in the class...i didnt know he had math tho. he came out, he flirted with me (or messed around, same as flirting... he poked me and said poke....dont ask, were weird like that XD) i smiled and he smiled then we went to class. i told my friend aubrey what happened about him asking me about i need to wait for him after class and she said OOooOoooooOOOOoo...lol....then i told her what he said and she said thats stupid....i didnt see him in the halls after or when every one was leaving (D.E.A.R. is after math and its the last class of the day and all we do is stay in the room that we are currently in and read).
i am comfortable around him. were friends aleready but we have feelings for eachother (i know he likes me.....trust me). Alex likes me for who i am and not just because im pretty. i guess ill wait for tomorrow. please tell me whats happening sooo srry that its so long its just that i dont know whats going on.....i need advice
I think it is a shame so many really young kids are in to this behavior. Parents are dropping the ball. How are young people having the opportunity to do these things?
Off topic, I'm sorry.
I think it is a shame so many really young kids are in to this behavior. Parents are dropping the ball. How are young people having the opportunity to do these things?
Off topic, I'm sorry.
to think_pink...i thought he was making the gf thing up too but idk....and to people sayin he flirts with other people or hes a player..... NO HE IS NOT!!! every time he sees me he flirts with me....his locker is all the way around the corner and down the hall from mine (which is far away) and every day he comes down to see me after his class... so im pretty sure he doesnt have time to flirt with other people.... btw on friday everyone (my friends) kept saying to alex ..."alex ask alex out" and stuff and he kept saying no to them (i would to cuz id b embarressed) but idk if hes saying no cuz hes embarressed or no bc he doesnt want to....
and my mom lets me have boyfriends and thats wut i mean by "ask out" not ask out on a date but to be his gf...its wut the ppl say in my skools idk y either
You guys are what 12? How serious can this be. You two have discovered the opposite sex and you're all giddy. Get your education.
But think about this. Could you really trust a guy that says he has a gf but is flirting with you? What if you were the gf?
Do unto others what you would have them do unto you.
actually i am exceeding in all of my classes in my classes and im not flirting like verbally so i dont pay attention... i look at him for 5 seconds the look away... that doesn't distract me...so i do have education
and what do u mean "what if u were the gf?" that makes no sense??
and my mom lets me have boyfriends just not go out on a date (well maybe i could but with my mom there)... what i mean by "ask out" it means to ask to be there bf/gf... thats what we (people) say now
actually i am exceeding in all of my classes in my classes and im not flirting like verbally so i dont pay attention... i look at him for 5 seconds the look away... that doesn't distract me...so i do have education
and what do u mean "what if u were the gf?" that makes no sense??
and my mom lets me have boyfriends just not go out on a date (well maybe i could but with my mom there)... what i mean by "ask out" it means to ask to be there bf/gf... thats what we (people) say now
yeah i know what u mean by that wen i was your age we called it that way 2 and i dont think theres anything wrong with that
to think_pink...i thought he was making the gf thing up too but idk....and to people sayin he flirts with other people or hes a player..... NO HE IS NOT!!! every time he sees me he flirts with me....his locker is all the way around the corner and down the hall from mine (which is far away) and every day he comes down to see me after his class... so im pretty sure he doesnt have time to flirt with other people.... btw on friday everyone (my friends) kept saying to alex ..."alex ask alex out" and stuff and he kept saying no to them (i would to cuz id b embarressed) but idk if hes saying no cuz hes embarressed or no bc he doesnt want to....
omg he does that?? then wat can i say ?? sounds like he likes you and its just gona take time till he asks u