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Old May 24, 2009, 02:29 AM
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I like this guy but why did he ask me for just sex

I met someone at a club and he ask me for sex I txt him and said I was not that kinna of girl and that I would like to date but he said he didn't want to be tied down cause he came out of a 4 yr relationship 5 months ago. I asked him via txt if he wanted me he told me he wanted me and the next day I felt awkward cause he kinna ignored my txt. I would go back to the club and see him he would stare but we wouldn't talk why is it that ignores me like that?

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Old May 24, 2009, 06:02 AM   #2  
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Pretty obvious. All he wanted was sex. Ignore the slob and move on. Clubbing IMHO will probably get a lot of guys like that and not really get you a steady.

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When he only asked for sex and you didn't want that either, you didn't even have to bother explaining that you're looking for a relationship.

You're too nice! You definitely deserve better treatment than this.
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He is ignoring you because he is a loser who thinks women are nothing but playthings.
No wonder he is single!
Be glad he is ignoring you!

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Hey, give him credit, at least he didn't pretend to want to date you just to try and have sex.

He is ignoring you because you aren't that kind of girl. Sooner or later he will find someone who is that kind of girl and they will both get what they are looking for.

He made it clear he isn't interested in getting to know you, or get involved in another relationship, so he actually did you a favor by not causing you to think he cares about you and wasting your time.

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Yep he wants sex only and your saying you want more scared him off.
Like Doug said many guys will go along with the date thing to get what they want but you told him up front that you expect more.
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Thanks guys for the response. If someone is not interested I can't do anything about it. I have to move on.

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It kinna hurts my feelings to have a guy just want me for sex. I feel kinna cheap. There was so many girls that were practicly naked that night why bother with someone who isn't. I can't understand that.
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it sure isn't flattering to me to be just a sex thing. I am attractive which is odd maybe im too nice
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He very likely found something more attractive about you.
Don't consider it 'making you feel cheap' because you put him straight and he probably admires you even more for it.
Stick to your guns and don't give in.
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