Alright so heres the story.
I just got out of a 9 month relationship, I got dumped. This girl I'm taking with, I talked with last year too. We almost went out last year until I gave my -ex (the one from the 9 months) another chance. Now I like this girl, we had alot of fun hanging out last night and made me completely forget about being sad. We both were laughing the whole time.
She told me that she thinks im "alright" looking. she said she doesnt think I'm ugly.
I asked her to hang out with me so we could go mess with her -ex and watch a movie and then we hung out for about 2 hours.
Today we might get to hang out, but I'm not sure what to do. I came REALLY close to dating her last year, but then my -ex got involved and things spun out. I DID tell her that I like her, and that didn't bother her.

I want to ask her out, because I feel like I'm ready
but I'm not sure if I should bring it up today when we hang out
like she does like another guy but she's unsure if she should go back out with him or not, and me and her see each other a lot so it could possibly work
what should I do??

sandra6

HI I think being friends with her at the moment would be the best thing for you to do. As you haven't been out of a relationship for long. That way you will know for defo if she wants to be more than friends. Also if she is going back to the other bloke you won't feel too sad, you will still be her friend. Let things happen naturally if they don't then you will know she isn't the girlfriend for you just friends.

JBeaucaire

this thread is .... 8 months old?

cheesseball

first of all good for you for trying to move on im so happy for you that you found someone to make you smile and not think of all the sad things going on... i think you should go for it its worth a try. she seems like she likes you! itll never hurt to try and who knows she could be the next best thing or even better you dont want to give that up